I talk about anime quite a lot IRL, personally. The Anime Society at my university appreciates me, which is nice; we go the student union bar after every meeting, and discuss animus. Who cares if there are muggles around overhearing tales of my cartoon underage panty-quests? Plus, the friends I've made outside of AniSoc are all either into anime or getting into it; anime's netted me more friends than I have time for, to be honest, and I'm thankful for that.
Really, the only person who I came close to falling out with was the head of the Japanese Society. I found it hilarious that in the Chinese Society, most members were Chinese, and in the Indian Society, most members were Indian - but in the Japanese Society? Not a single Japanese person to be found.
Then they openly call the Anime Society "weeaboos", which is as pitiful as it is ironic.
That's not why I fell out with him, though; he questioned my knowledge on Madoka without the means to back himself up, and then just fell back on complaining that I kept calling the series "Puella Magi Madoka Magica" as opposed to "Mahou Shoujo Madoka Magica". I then reassured him that "Puella Magi" has always appeared in the franchise's Japanese logos, to which he just pulled a face and dropped the subject. Later on in the same conversation, he mentioned Ghost in the Shell, and I asked (in as piss-taking a manner as I could possibly manage) why he wasn't referring to it by its Japanese title, "Kokaku Kidotai" - and he just told me to **** off.
Serves him right for being such a petty little Japanophile, really.
I'm running for a position on the Anime Society's exec team this semester, though I'll probably be competing against a friend of mine, which'll suck. Honestly, all I have to do is say "the other guy gave Love Live a 9/10 on MAL", and nobody will vote for him. There isn't any dirt to spill on me, thankfully; I'm practically introduced as "Jack, the loli-loving autist" nowadays, but that doesn't seem to have hurt my popularity at all. Sometimes I feel like my position is to be openly perverted so as to make the closet perverts feel more comfortable.
And believe me, there are a lot of closet perverts in the Anime Society. :3