The General Relationship Thread

  • Thread starter Thread starter Type S Tony
  • 5,253 comments
  • 295,665 views
Team THRT Drift
No no we talk. We just talked now. She was out for a late gym workout and she's on her way back. I'll talk to her tomorrow she has a really long day and needs someone to take her mind off of it.
Click to expand...




Oh ok my bad

I thought you said you want to talk to her again when you said you want to see her again lol.Yeah i know how you feel, back then when it kills me when i see my crush on MSN messenger, i feel like seeing her but what you got right now is hard since both of you live far away. So what are you planning on in this one ? turning the overprotective brother relationship into something more is hard and from what you said earlier it seems like she is too comfortable now.
 
I honestly don't know. We planned a roadtrip to go see our friends in Florida. So I would drive down to D.C. (around 14 hours) stay one night with her and set off in the morning for Florida.

That was the plan.


A couple of things came up and now I can't go.

I think I could flip this relationship, but then again I've had my chances. All I want to do is see her.
 
Team THRT Drift
I honestly don't know. We planned a roadtrip to go see our friends in Florida. So I would drive down to D.C. (around 14 hours) stay one night with her and set off in the morning for Florida.

That was the plan.


A couple of things came up and now I can't go.


I think I could flip this relationship, but then again I've had my chances. All I want to do is see her.
Click to expand...

If that's the case then all i can say is go with the flow and good luck. Hope everything went as you want it ;)
 
I have been talking to my friend over facebook since she has moved. She told me that she had some regrets but she couldn't tell me. Once in awhile, I'd tell her that I miss her and she misses me also. I am just confused feelings wise since she has a bf and regrets moving. Sadly, I think I am being used again for her own reasons.
 
nk4e
I have been talking to my friend over facebook since she has moved. She told me that she had some regrets but she couldn't tell me. Once in awhile, I'd tell her that I miss her and she misses me also. I am just confused feelings wise since she has a bf and regrets moving. Sadly, I think I am being used again for her own reasons.
Click to expand...

I honestly don't see what she could gain from this.
 
nk4e
I have been talking to my friend over facebook since she has moved. She told me that she had some regrets but she couldn't tell me. Once in awhile, I'd tell her that I miss her and she misses me also. I am just confused feelings wise since she has a bf and regrets moving. Sadly, I think I am being used again for her own reasons.
Click to expand...
What does she regret ? Why would she used you ?
 
Its been a good bit since I've given an update here. Here's one:

I've been trying to move on from the last girl (the one that moved), and its actually been going well lately. About a week ago, I found out that a girl in my English class apparently wants to date me and thinks that I'm cool. I would not be against dating her, and I think I'm feeling that I'm starting to get feelings for her. I'd like to start getting to know her better, since at this point we're just two random people in the same class, and I might just start talking to her on Monday.
 
GTboyz
What does she regret ? Why would she used you ?
Click to expand...
I ask and she won't say. When I needed her,she wouldn't respond. When she needs me I'll respond
 
My last posts here were of troubles with my (now ex) girlfriend. Some may remember. We talked things out and figured it better to both part ways.

Then she kept flirting with me on and off. Of course my best friend (basically a sister) wasn't gonna let her. :lol: Long story short last week I was still interested in her. However I had been developing feelings for the past month or so for this sophomore. (I'm a junior btw) I kept, rejecting(?), those feelings because I wanted to stay there in case my ex still liked me. (Stupid I know) Sunday I open up Instagram and a picture of her new boyfriend comes up. I should've felt jealousy, anger, all these emotions, yet instead I felt relief. Maybe I felt I was truly free?

So me and this sophomore have been talking a lot. She flirted with me a bunch during band for the past two months, and so have I. In fact a week ago I was leaving school to catch up with some friends at a nearby cafe and she caught me walking out, so I walked with her for a little bit before she highjacked my phone and got my number.

I don't know if I'll date her. I have feelings but I'm not 100% sure she's truly "right" for me in a way. Then again maybe she is, I just don't know? Of course my ex seems to want to be my best girl-friend, which is kinda hard considering I already have one. She seemed to have got wind that I've moved on, and according to my friend perhaps things aren't going well for her, so she started being flirty with me this afternoon. :lol: You messed up your chance when you suggested we become friends the first time.

So life, life has been going damn well. :D
 
Any Band class stories?
 
Crispy
My last posts here were of troubles with my (now ex) girlfriend. Some may remember. We talked things out and figured it better to both part ways.

Then she kept flirting with me on and off. Of course my best friend (basically a sister) wasn't gonna let her. :lol: Long story short last week I was still interested in her. However I had been developing feelings for the past month or so for this sophomore. (I'm a junior btw) I kept, rejecting(?), those feelings because I wanted to stay there in case my ex still liked me. (Stupid I know) Sunday I open up Instagram and a picture of her new boyfriend comes up. I should've felt jealousy, anger, all these emotions, yet instead I felt relief. Maybe I felt I was truly free?

So me and this sophomore have been talking a lot. She flirted with me a bunch during band for the past two months, and so have I. In fact a week ago I was leaving school to catch up with some friends at a nearby cafe and she caught me walking out, so I walked with her for a little bit before she highjacked my phone and got my number.

I don't know if I'll date her. I have feelings but I'm not 100% sure she's truly "right" for me in a way. Then again maybe she is, I just don't know? Of course my ex seems to want to be my best girl-friend, which is kinda hard considering I already have one. She seemed to have got wind that I've moved on, and according to my friend perhaps things aren't going well for her, so she started being flirty with me this afternoon. :lol: You messed up your chance when you suggested we become friends the first time.

So life, life has been going damn well. :D
Click to expand...
You don't have to be 100% sure, date her, get to know her etc etc the best relationships start as friendships first.
 
@Crispy man i'd love to have that situation where someone from your past come to you because things aren't going well for them. Getting back at 'em should feel good lol
 
nk4e
Any Band class stories?
Click to expand...
On Monday nights we have practice for our band's competition marching show. These practices are hated because they last until 7-9 PM on a Monday Night.

So I'm texting her and I ask if she's going to rehearsal because she sometimes doesn't go. That day she decides to go so I have a little fun by telling her I am going to skip. She starts being all like "NO YOU HAVE TO COME DON'T LEAVE ME HERE ALONE" which was hilarious, especially because I was already on the field watching her send these messages. I was getting a good kick out of this until she saw me and proceeded to steal my drill chart's string that I use to hold it up. :lol:

Someone also decided to turn around and tell her to stop flirting, to which she responded by lightly kicking them in the shin.

@GTboyz Normally I wouldn't have felt so good about it, after all she was a good girlfriend and a great person. However after hearing what my best friend says she acts like (trying to prove she's better as my best friend than my actual best friend) and seemingly coming out of nowhere inviting me to festivals and stuff now that I'm interested in someone else. That kinda rubs me the wrong way, so I feel victorious. :lol:
 
Good person or not, if she did all those things you said, it feels good to feel victorious when this happens lol
 
Well guys, tomorrow is Monday and that starts another week of school. I told you all about the girl who supposedly wants to date me. I'm going to start talking to her if she's not absent. I'm not sure what to start things off with but I'm looking for a start of some sort at the very least.
 
Meme 169.jpg

So yeah..... that one went down the 🤬. What really pisses me off is how she keeps texting me like I didn't see what I just saw. She sends me another selfie, this time the bloke is out of the frame, but he's got his arm wrapped around her.

misc-jackie-chan-l.png

Someone explain this logic.... please.
 
Team THRT Drift

So yeah..... that one went down the 🤬. What really pisses me off is how she keeps texting me like I didn't see what I just saw. She sends me another selfie, this time the bloke is out of the frame, but he's got his arm wrapped around her.

misc-jackie-chan-l.png

Someone explain this logic.... please.
Click to expand...

Maybe she's trying to tell you something. It ain't gay if your balls don't touch.
 
Well I've can't believe I am saying this but the past few months or so on blah blah, in therapy, blah blah, got a crush on one, blah blah, she left to a better paying job, blah blah, got a new one, could care less, blah blah, did testing with a psychologist she was good looking, blond, thin, body appearance was :drool: and now I am wanting to try and date her but I know I can't no matter how hard I try :banghead:. Unless there is a way through some loopholes somewhere.
 
TJ13
Well I've can't believe I am saying this but the past few months or so on blah blah, in therapy, blah blah, got a crush on one, blah blah, she left to a better paying job, blah blah, got a new one, could care less, blah blah, did testing with a psychologist she was good looking, blond, thin, body appearance was :drool: and now I am wanting to try and date her but I know I can't no matter how hard I try :banghead:. Unless there is a way through some loopholes somewhere.
Click to expand...

Blah, blah, date her, blah blah, get her number. Blah, blah, blah, blah testing with psychologist? Blah?
 
phillkillv2
Blah, blah, date her, blah blah, get her number. Blah, blah, blah, blah testing with psychologist? Blah?
Click to expand...

Long story. (Pervasive Developmental Disorder)
If I had the chance to I would date her. But, there are rules and laws for that. Which kinda sucks. I ever do think if she thinks of me at all. :boggled:
 
New crush, meet ex-girlfriend.

I found out my ex is trying to assert herself as my best friend with all of my good friends. Not just the one I was talking about. :rolleyes: She asks if I want to go Halloween shopping with her, so i agree (I need a white apron for my Bob's Burgers costume) and I wait in the band hall for her to come. Cue creepy guy talking to me (He has green teeth, talks about my, other regions, and has a "con-funk" to him) so I move to the PAC, which is basically a meeting center.

That's where I see my crush, so I ask her what she got on the ASL test. We talk for a minute or so before she grabs my arm and pulls me into the band hall where we talk some more. She goes to put her instrument away which is when my ex finally comes. I talk with her, stalling, until my crush comes out. She asks me to come with her so I tell my ex that I'll be right back and walk with my crush.

When we are walking we see some friends who stand near us in band. Both of them ask "Are ya'll dating?" before trying to embarrass us with "Katie Crispy 2014!" (People do actually call me Crispy :lol: ) I find out she's going to tutoring so we have a talk about the teachers since I'm a grade higher.

When we get to the stairs before her class she starts walking really slow up the stairs. It took almost a minute for her to walk the ten feet to the classroom, I guess she really hates tutoring? :lol:

My ex puts two and two together and asks if I like her. I don't lie. The rest of the day she starts trying to plan things me and her can do together and brushing up against me a bunch. :lol: I text my friend about this later and she responds only with "TELL HER TO STEP THE 🤬 OFF" I also start texting my crush (I guess I can call her Katie now? :lol: ) and we talk for about two hours. We were talking about jobs (She almost needed me to drive her to hers) and I mention I need a job (Motormounts aren't cheap... Neither is drifting) and she tells me to apply at where she works.

So that's about it. I won't be seeing her again until next week, she's going to be in San Antonio for family. I still don't fully believe she likes me, despite what my friends say.

Sorry for all these walls of texts I post in this thread! It's the only way I can convey my experiences! :lol:
 
Back