The General Relationship Thread

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New crush, meet ex-girlfriend.

I found out my ex is trying to assert herself as my best friend with all of my good friends. Not just the one I was talking about. :rolleyes: She asks if I want to go Halloween shopping with her, so i agree (I need a white apron for my Bob's Burgers costume) and I wait in the band hall for her to come. Cue creepy guy talking to me (He has green teeth, talks about my, other regions, and has a "con-funk" to him) so I move to the PAC, which is basically a meeting center.

That's where I see my crush, so I ask her what she got on the ASL test. We talk for a minute or so before she grabs my arm and pulls me into the band hall where we talk some more. She goes to put her instrument away which is when my ex finally comes. I talk with her, stalling, until my crush comes out. She asks me to come with her so I tell my ex that I'll be right back and walk with my crush.

When we are walking we see some friends who stand near us in band. Both of them ask "Are ya'll dating?" before trying to embarrass us with "Katie Crispy 2014!" (People do actually call me Crispy :lol: ) I find out she's going to tutoring so we have a talk about the teachers since I'm a grade higher.

When we get to the stairs before her class she starts walking really slow up the stairs. It took almost a minute for her to walk the ten feet to the classroom, I guess she really hates tutoring? :lol:

My ex puts two and two together and asks if I like her. I don't lie. The rest of the day she starts trying to plan things me and her can do together and brushing up against me a bunch. :lol: I text my friend about this later and she responds only with "TELL HER TO STEP THE 🤬 OFF" I also start texting my crush (I guess I can call her Katie now? :lol: ) and we talk for about two hours. We were talking about jobs (She almost needed me to drive her to hers) and I mention I need a job (Motormounts aren't cheap... Neither is drifting) and she tells me to apply at where she works.

So that's about it. I won't be seeing her again until next week, she's going to be in San Antonio for family. I still don't fully believe she likes me, despite what my friends say.

Sorry for all these walls of texts I post in this thread! It's the only way I can convey my experiences! :lol:
 
Sounds like a lovely day there @Crispy :lol:.


Some of you may remember my post about the girl that i used to love but i found out from her close friend that she is only using me or something like that so since then i stay away from her and ignore her.

Yesterday my friend who is hanging out with her and her friends told me something. They've been talking about relationships and she said a girl should be with a nice, sweet guy not someone with money or handsome. Her friend (which was the one who told me that she used me) then kinda defend me... I think. her friend said "you had someone nice who likes you (that's me), why not with him?"

She just laugh.

What she just said is a load of 🤬, why can't she just straightforward tell me that its useless liking her since she won't like me back ? Everyone around her knew that it would hurt my feelings more if she just keep showing some fake signs to me only to date another guy. i'm glad her friend told me the truth about her so i can finally move on but hearing all those stories from her friend makes me wonder how the hell did i like this girl at the first place
 
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You basically are going through what I did to a much lesser extent.

Speaking of which...it'll be going on two months since that garbage went down. God I miss her like hell...
 
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You basically are going through what I did to a much lesser extent.

Speaking of which...it'll be going on two months since that garbage went down. God I miss her like hell...
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its been a month for me.

I don't want to admit it but i think i kinda miss her too, but i keep reminding myself of how much of a lie she was the entire time, which made it easier to move on.

I hope its normal to still miss someone who hurt you like hell and that it would go away after certain time.
 
I'm starting to accept that she's probably always going to be part of me in some way.
 
GTboyz
I hope its normal to still miss someone who hurt you like hell and that it would go away after certain time.
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Yeah it is.

No matter how much they hurt you, you still miss them and even if they come back grovelling they still get under your skin and you cannot ignore them.
 
Wow I guess there's not much relationships happening lately? I've decided to give up on finding a girlfriend. It takes a lot of effort forever alone :(. Ill get a dog instead when ive got my own place a mans best Friend :).
 
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Wow I guess there's not much relationships happening lately? I've decided to give up on finding a girlfriend. It takes a lot of effort forever alone :(. Ill get a dog instead when ive got my own place a mans best Friend :).
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One should never "look" for a girlfriend for numerous reasons. Just go out, meet people, socialize, volunteer, do stuff, be active, be fun, try new things, work on your personality, appearance, phsyical fitness, be someone others want to be around...and the girlfriend will just happen naturally.
 
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One should never "look" for a girlfriend for numerous reasons. Just go out, meet people, socialize, volunteer, do stuff, be active, be fun, try new things, work on your personality, appearance, phsyical fitness, be someone others want to be around...and the girlfriend will just happen naturally.
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Well I'll hopefully be starting to do some volunteer work soon as the job market is so dry at the moment and I'm bored of being at home doing nothing.
 
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Well I'll hopefully be starting to do some volunteer work soon as the job market is so dry at the moment and I'm bored of being at home doing nothing.
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Not hopefully, do it, and do it today. Look for something to do and just go do it. Local food banks, shelters, houses of worship, community organizations of all kinds are always looking for volunteers. To relate this to women and relationships, most women are attracted to men that are decisive and action oriented, men who don't sit around "hopefully" waiting for the motivation to go and do something. Shake off the doldrums and get going:tup:👍 Force yourself into action, sometimes it's the only way:cheers:
 
Johnnypenso
Not hopefully, do it, and do it today. Look for something to do and just go do it. Local food banks, shelters, houses of worship, community organizations of all kinds are always looking for volunteers. To relate this to women and relationships, most women are attracted to men that are decisive and action oriented, men who don't sit around "hopefully" waiting for the motivation to go and do something. Shake off the doldrums and get going:tup:👍 Force yourself into action, sometimes it's the only way:cheers:
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Ha ha today I got out as far as the shops :p. yep I need to start getting more motivated since right now it is kind of depressing lol need to meet people.
 
Becaus I'm sure you all love hearing about my teenager love problems, here I go. So I start talking to a girl again that I had talked to while I was going for the other one, and start to think about asking her out. So one afternoon I send "hey, what you doing?" Long story short, she sends back "talking to my BF, you?" That's the one dead and buried :lol:. So at cricket training I was talking to my teammate that's in the one that I've liked all along,but hates me class. Apparently she showed her some cuts on her arm. Now I feel like I didn't do enough when she would talk to me, even though I done all I could :indiff:
 
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There is this very fine line between caring and just bejng creepy. With that said, I'm done with friendships. Officially. Back to being indifferent to every person I see.

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There is this very fine line between caring and just bejng creepy.
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Amen.


I think I've crossed that line a time or two...




That said, over 2 months since the incident. I've been handling things decently, but I broke down last night and just had to cry it out. I'm much better today though. :)
 
Hm, this tread still exists :D It's been a while since I last posted in here.

Either way, got to know a girl earlier this year. We've started dating back in February and we've been in a stable relationship since a few weeks afterwards. Greatest person in the history of ever, that one. And cute, beautiful and sexy, to boot. I'd walk barefoot through hell for her, if I had to. First time I feel like my GF would to the same thing for me...
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Now I feel like I didn't do enough when she would talk to me, even though I done all I could :indiff:
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Don't put the blame on you. People who cut themselves are usually doing that either way, regardless of what you would've done. Besides, it most certainly isn't your job to make sure she's okay. Leave that to her parents and her partner (if she has one).
 
It's been awhile since I posted here. I checked now, and it been 2 months since I made my last post on this thread, time really flies...

On this Saturday, I hang out with some of my friends and there it was the girl that I already talked about here, a few pages ago. Although she's not a major part of my life, I still can't forget her..
And, out of the blue, on Sunday, she spoke to me on Facebook, something we haven't done in months.
It was about something pointless which got me confused about what she pretends...

If I'm in the right mood, tomorrow I'll try to talk to her. I haven't got a clue it this means something or not. (Or maybe I'm trying to give this a meaning...)
 
A lot going on with me lately. I've changed school and made new friends and such. But I'm yet to meet a nice girl. But since thursday that me and another girl have been glancing each other a lot. But I'm a disaster and I can't interpretate those glancings and I can't find the guts to start a conversation. Can anyone give me some advice please?
 

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