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Been single for all 17 years of my life. Had at least semi-friends females here and there, most often since I started middle school and am now in high school. Only a few of my friends have been the same as me.
 
Johnny1996
Been single for all 17 years of my life. Had at least semi-friends females here and there, most often since I started middle school and am now in high school. Only a few of my friends have been the same as me.
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Just forget about it for a while and just take things easy, someone will surely come...


I promise. :sly:
 
Man I love talking about high-school. During the time I loved life for how ****ing ****** it was. Some of the dumbest stuff would happen to me. I was either getting chewed out by my awful awesome friends or getting treated like garbage by other people, but it didn't stop me from being myself. Like said, in college no one gives a damn about you. I kind-of like it but at the same time I don't. It's harder coming across potential relationships and people that'll be worthwhile talking to.

As for the singleness, I've never really been in real relationships, I only dicked around with the girls in middle-school and high-school. It's not a big deal.

Johnny1996
But there's a problem. I'm more an outcast.
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Nothing to wrong with that. I treated myself as an outcast although I had more than enough relationships with people to be considered one. Everyone was cool with me towards the end of high-school although I reached the breaking point in the beginning of Senior year.
 
Didn't followed this thread, clicked "Friend's activity" instead of "Watched Threads"... but hey @MoLiEG It was pretty obvious by your statuses in GTP that you were into somebody, now I read this.. and ..ermm Congratulations!!!! :D :cheers:

Might want to explain my situation here aswell

I'm the only one in our friend group that is not going for a girl, nor have a girlfriend, I'm strangely fine with that, given that I've had more girlfriends in mid-high than in High School (Score is 4-1)

I think it is because I started to take this very serious (The longest I've ever lasted on a relationship was 2 years in my most recent one, compared to a laughable 5 months, which was my longest in middle school), I know a lot of girls, I can hold a conversation for a pretty long time, I've been to the movie theater with some of them, I've done things that I tought that they only "would" be valid in a realtionship.

So there you go, no girlfriend, not going for somebody, I'm just the wingman of my friends, but some of them just try too freaking hard...

BUT (yes, there's always an exception) some friends started telling me this Monday, that two girls are trying for a relationship with me :crazy:, I know who they are

I don't really know what the hell should I do this time.
 
Started dating my current girlfriend in 2007 when we were Juniors in high school. Still happy, still look forward to seeing her everyday, and look forward to the years to come as we progress towards new ventures like moving, opening our own business, and starting a family.

Dont know what else to say haha.
 
I had lots of ups and downs ever since I broke up with my third girlfriend(yes I'm a three timer) and now im single plus I'm just a loner right now:(:(.
 
I'm working on self improvement at the moment to help me 'not care' about being single.
Going to start going to the gym. Not to 'get jacked' but to just lose the gut I've developed over the years.
Will probably assist with attracting people to me as an added bonus.

However due to recent events, new people I've started speaking to, I'm more sceptical than ever about girls liking me. I was having pretty NSFW conversations with a girl only for her to apologise when I tried to advance because she has a GF and she 'is like this with everyone'.
Makes me wonder how I'd know when someone's saying it seriously.
 
WrxScooby
Started dating my current girlfriend in 2007 when we were Juniors in high school. Still happy, still look forward to seeing her everyday, and look forward to the years to come as we progress towards new ventures like moving, opening our own business, and starting a family.

Dont know what else to say haha.
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Nice! I'll be one year on Saturday
 
Good News! I did not lose the girl I thought I 🤬 up quite bad. We started talking again couple days later. I havnt really talked to much of my friends since what happened last week. And she tells me *I miss you*. You're like so different from all the other guys i know. You're heart is different. And blah blah continue. And technically saying were technically going out. So no issue here. Everything resolved.
:cheers:
 
I had a few cases today of not-sure-if-looking-at-me-or-someone-else from a couple of very beautiful girls. One, if they did look at me, kept about a 20 second look on me. I'm always worried about looking back at them, which I regret. I'm not real sure how this relates to a relationship, unless I'm missing it.

Anyway, good to hear, Kitten. :cheers:
 
AJHG1000
Didn't followed this thread, clicked "Friend's activity" instead of "Watched Threads"... but hey @MoLiEG It was pretty obvious by your statuses in GTP that you were into somebody, now I read this.. and ..ermm Congratulations!!!! :D :cheers:

Might want to explain my situation here aswell

I'm the only one in our friend group that is not going for a girl, nor have a girlfriend, I'm strangely fine with that, given that I've had more girlfriends in mid-high than in High School (Score is 4-1)

I think it is because I started to take this very serious (The longest I've ever lasted on a relationship was 2 years in my most recent one, compared to a laughable 5 months, which was my longest in middle school), I know a lot of girls, I can hold a conversation for a pretty long time, I've been to the movie theater with some of them, I've done things that I tought that they only "would" be valid in a realtionship.

So there you go, no girlfriend, not going for somebody, I'm just the wingman of my friends, but some of them just try too freaking hard...

BUT (yes, there's always an exception) some friends started telling me this Monday, that two girls are trying for a relationship with me :crazy:, I know who they are

I don't really know what the hell should I do this time.
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Well, first of all, thank you! :)

Imagine the most unbalanced girl you could ever find... and then multiply that for 9000... that's my sweetheart :lol: :D

And, about your situation.... well, it's something I'm not familiar with. I've alwasy been the hunter, never the pray...

But still, If I were you, I would date them 1st one, and then the other... and find out who has the most sincere intentions... have a good time, take them to dinner, or the movies... I don't know, that's your call...

I'm sure you will do just fine! :)👍 Good luck bro! :D
 
Seems like women is just like Mother nature.
Go from one extreme to another and everyone else hates it. :p (like more snow :()
 
I actually care about the person I'm with... I'm not into a girl just to do it I'm into her because the things we could do together: Road trips, sand dunes, visit family,... I like to talk to the lady and do things she's likes and watch what she likes and I wouldn't complain.
 
I just had the best dream ever. As you know, dreams are symbols of what to come (or what's happening do far in your life and what you want, etc), so I have high hopes that something good is going to happen on Monday.
 
Welp, the past few days have been interesting. Started speaking to a girl from my college last Monday because of a group project, and since then, we've been talking loads right out of the blue. She's also started sitting herself closer to me in class, messaging me on Facebook and given me her number. Also showing quite a lot of the usual flirty signs (touching hair, laughing at stupid stuff, being quite excitable in my company, etc.). I don't know why I wrote this like some sort of police or military report, but whatever.

We have a class trip on Tuesday, and she said she was thinking of sitting next to me on the coach and seemed quite happy at the prospect of it. Interdasting. Very interdasting. This probably all means nothing, but its still something to take notice of! 👍
 
INEEDNAWZZZ
Welp, the past few days have been interesting. Started speaking to a girl from my college last Monday because of a group project, and since then, we've been talking loads right out of the blue. She's also started sitting herself closer to me in class, messaging me on Facebook and given me her number. Also showing quite a lot of the usual flirty signs (touching hair, laughing at stupid stuff, being quite excitable in my company, etc.). I don't know why I wrote this like some sort of police or military report, but whatever.

We have a class trip on Tuesday, and she said she was thinking of sitting next to me on the coach and seemed quite happy at the prospect of it. Interdasting. Very interdasting. This probably all means nothing, but its still something to take notice of! 👍
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I've been in a situation like that.
 
Did it turn out good or bad in the end? I mean, I know it makes no difference for how it'll end up for me, but it's interesting to hear these stories!
 
INEEDNAWZZZ
Did it turn out good or bad in the end? I mean, I know it makes no difference for how it'll end up for me, but it's interesting to hear these stories!
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I'm still waiting haven't talked to her sense last day of school. I don't want to end up alone like my father.
 
Probably best to keep an open mind in that case; it's great to think "oh wow, she likes me!" but that makes it all the more crushing when things don't go your way. Conversely, having a bad attitude towards the idea until it actually happens means you will think you fluked it or something, which causes more problems down the line.
 
I'm surprised she accepts that I like her.. Usually girls just give me a dirty look I said they look pretty. She's really sweet and I some how want to be her boyfriend some time.
 
Yeah, I don't get why girls instantly think you want to sleep with them just because you complimented them on their appearance - especially when you compliment them on something they went out of their way to make stand out (like their hair).

The issue I'm seeing with my situation is that I'm not totally sure whether I like her or just like the attention she's been giving me, if that makes sense. No girl has really given me such obvious signs before (or at least, what I'm interpreting as signs) and I'm kind of taken by that. That said, I have noticed her in my other classes and did always think she was one of the nicer girls there. Plus, I did like spending the time I did with her and she seems to tick off most of the characteristics I'm looking for.
 
14 days guys....




14 F:censored: DAYS!!!!!!!




NOBODY.... ABSOLUTELY NOBODY INSULTS ME AND GETS AWAY WITH IT!!!!!!!!
 
AlvaroF
Tha hell happend? She broke up with you?
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She texted me... drunk... yesterday...






...and told me I don't know how to kiss, or touch her, that I have no guts, no passion... she laughed at me, made fun of me and my ways... questioned my manhood...






SHE CRUSHED EVERYTHING I FELT FOR HER IN JUST ONE NIGHT...





THIS IS BEYOND REPAIR... THE SIZE OF THE INSULT WAS JUST TOO BIG...
 

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