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MoLiEG
She texted me... drunk... yesterday...






...and told me I don't know how to kiss, or touch her, that I have no guts, no passion... she laughed at me, made fun of me and my ways... questioned my manhood...






SHE CRUSHED EVERYTHING I FELT FOR HER IN JUST ONE NIGHT...





THIS IS BEYOND REPAIR... THE SIZE OF THE INSULT WAS JUST TOO BIG...
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It's not the end MoLiEG. Just take it as advice.. well, that's not really advice but just take the things she said and improve on them.
 
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It's not the end MoLiEG. Just take it as advice.. well, that's not really advice but just take the things she said and improve on them.
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BS...

BULLLLL.... S:censored:!!!!!!!!!

Everything she said about me is a lie!!! She is an idiot... I thought she knew me well, but I guess not...

She'll live to see me rise... That's a promise!!!!
 
Yeah... I'll give it some time to cool down...


And yeah, I still want her... but I also want her as far as possible from me... all that BS she said is something I'm not going to forgive and forget very soon...
 
I understand things like that might be hard to hear, but remember, it came from a drunk mouth. You can't always take what a drunk person says as fact.

For all you know, she may have been simply confusing you for a former lover. She may very well be happy with you. It's a game of trust. Relationships are not built in a day. Actions are stronger than words. Once things cool down, pay attention to how she acts around you; do it when you aren't going to be thinking about it. Do it so it's noticeable. Just be observant. How she acts will tell you a lot.

Even if you bring it up, see if she fires back with "I was drunk, don't take me seriously".
 
Slash
I understand things like that might be hard to hear, but remember, it came from a drunk mouth. You can't always take what a drunk person says as fact.

For all you know, she may have been simply confusing you for a former lover. She may very well be happy with you. It's a game of trust. Relationships are not built in a day. Actions are stronger than words. Once things cool down, pay attention to how she acts around you; do it when you aren't going to be thinking about it. Do it so it's noticeable. Just be observant. How she acts will tell you a lot.

Even if you bring it up, see if she fires back with "I was drunk, don't take me seriously".
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No.

She did broke with me. She doesn't want to be with me. She doesn't want to see me for a while. Again, she wants time.

I trust her, but she doesn't trust me.

I'll give her some time to think about it... like... forever. That should be enough.

However. I'm not going to move an inch. She knows where am I. If she still wants me, I'm all hers. It's time for her to do something.
 
She sounds really confused. She will get with you, but doesn't want to get with you.

I think the best thing to do in this case is to wait it out; maybe see other people in the mean time. I've told you before, if it'll be, it'll be. If you really love someone, maybe you should let her go.

Don't take this wrong though. I'm only trying to help and keep you from being more upset. I think you deserve someone better than that bud. Life's to short to dick around with someone who is only going to hurt you like this, and let's face it, none of us are getting any younger. Do you really want to spend your life chasing after someone who, as you put it quite plainly, doesn't want to be with you? As you might recall, I previously had an issue with this and eventually I realised what I had and decided to let one go. It worked for a while and then the girl I had at the time left me for one of me old friends (at least that's how I see it). Your best bet is to start searching out someone new, or take some time for yourself.

You've also said this before as far as you not budging, at it seems like you are the one always wanting to go back, at least from what I'm gathering over the last however many weeks.
 
Hypothetically speaking, has it ever crossed your mind that maybe you might be part of the problem? Not saying you are of course, but just something to think about. For all you know, you could be pushing way to hard for her, and that could be pushing her away, no matter how lightly you tread.

Some women are weird like that.
 
Yep. I've always been the one that wants things to happen. She, on the other side... well... what can I tell you?

And "Confused" it's more like her normal mental state...

I know. My best friend told me that. "You sound like a broken tape recorder, I've heard that before!"...

Slash
...If you really love someone, maybe you should let her go.

...and let's face it, none of us are getting any younger.

...Your best bet is to start searching out someone new, or take some time for yourself.
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1.- Considering it very, very seriously this time around...

2.- Yep. I'm 24... I'm not going to look fabolous forever :sly:

3.- If I completely drop her, then I will get to work and try to get another girl. Until now, I'll do just that and enjoy myself...

Slash
Hypothetically speaking, has it ever crossed your mind that maybe you might be part of the problem? Not saying you are of course, but just something to think about. For all you know, you could be pushing way to hard for her, and that could be pushing her away, no matter how lightly you tread.

Some women are weird like that.
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Might be, might not be.

I've never forced her to anything. And yet she might feel I'm trying to force her to be a couple.

She is weird, you know. And I'm weird too...
 
If you are the one that wants things to happen, you could be forcing her into something that she plain doesn't want and isn't sure how to tell you.

Like I said, you should probably take some time to yourself. If she comes back, she comes back, but if you find someone else, you might be happier.
 
Slash
If you are the one that wants things to happen, you could be forcing her into something that she plain doesn't want and isn't sure how to tell you.

Like I said, you should probably take some time to yourself. If she comes back, she comes back, but if you find someone else, you might be happier.
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1.- I want (or wanted, IDK) things to happen because she said she wanted things to happen, but she changes her mind so fast I think not even her knows what she wants...

Well, she wants me away from her... that's the only thing I know...

2.- Agreed. I need to be happy and I want to be happy. What happened yesterday was too much.

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Don't worry @MoLiEG. You'll pull through.

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To be conpletely honest mate, I was worried that this was going to happen. You were way too happy when you started out. I hope she didn't hurt you so much.
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That's the idea, thanks a lot!

It did hurt me a lot... yesterday I was a gunpowder barrell ready to blow up... but now I'm more calm... very mad, but calm...
 
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A vacation would be lovely :)

And thanks guys :D Really, Really appreciate the help :cheers:

I still need some time to come up with some good reflections of this situation... but thankfully I don't have to go to work until Tuesday... that will help.
 
My ex/former best friend/current awkward friend lol, I have no idea what it is anymore. But she got in contact with me after months of not talking. I honestly thought we'd never talk again. Neither had a grudge, we just stopped talking ya know? Anyway, I had a fleeting moment of hope that she contacted me because she was interested again. Boy am I friggin thick sometimes. :dunce:
 
No relationship updates for me. It feels like I am stuck somewhere if I get into one. So I am trying to improve myself in the ways I can.
 
And here she is... texting me like nothing happened...

She really thinks I'm stupid or wat???

Unbelievable...
 

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