The General Relationship Thread

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I agree completely with Slash here. If she doesn't even apologize, which is the least decent god damn thing to do here, she clearly is not worth your time. If, again, she didn't apologize, think what would happen if you already were in a relationship with her. I don't even want to think how much could she hurt you.
 
Had plans to meet up but things go changed at the last minute and had to "babysit" Stupid.
 
Bc4
Yea it sucks when you have everything planned out and something shows up :crazy:
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Just like this snow that supposed to happen tomorrow. Where is my spring? Oh wait...
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Hmm.
While I said that things didn't go as planned, but if she doesn't have to work she would come over. (Guess we may get to do things?) So I guess it's a pizza day.
 
This whole week, she and I have been stealing glances at each other. I wish I had the courage to talk to her like you guys. :'C
 
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This whole week, she and I have been stealing glances at each other. I wish I had the courage to talk to her like you guys. :'C
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Just do it mate, you don't have to jump straight into the deep end, just have a normal conversation like "How are you?" etc. If you sense things going south, just subtly end the conversation.

Easier said than done, I know 👍
 
Hahahaha! Only on a car forum will a relationship receive a car analogy....

But yeah, just go and talk to her. She's a human being. She understands nervousness, emotions, etc. Don't think of her as a do or die situation.

Be yourself, and just talk.
 
Exactly. I used to have this image in my head that if you spoke to someone you liked, but hadn't had too many conversations with them, you'd be classed as a creep or whatever, or that you'll be a nervous wreck. But in all honesty, you're much more likely to gain respect from them; even if it isn't romantically, you'll still be credited a little bit for at least being sociable. Always have to take the positives from a situation to your advantage.
 
Me and my best friend are getting along a lot better than last week. It's all a little shaky since i'm not his best friend, and we've gone from hating each other to being good friends, but i'm feeling a bit better about it all now.
 
Well that's good.

There's this guy that keeps harassing all my girlfriends in my class. He has no class, no style, nothing. Just useless 'fun-facts' that nobody cares about.

I was talking to my friend today, and he happened to be there 'in the conversation' when one of my girlfriends comes over and hugs me.

I said 'Hi, what are you doing?'

And she says with a smile 'Nothing, just felt like hugging you.'

She walks into her class behind me.


Now, this guy has been trying to go out with her for the past two years when she first came here.

SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND! FOR THREE YEARS ALREADY! And this bloke won't give in. He doesn't seem to understand this, and it pisses me off!

He will start rambling on and on to uninterested girls about his view on long-distance relationships... how they're not relationships, they should be more open, yadayadayada....


I feel like hitting this guy so bad right now....


To make matters worse, he's been giving me a bad look this whole day. As if to say, 'She should've hugged me!' *engage butthurtness*


I know it's bad to say this about people, but I SERIOUSLY think there's a cognitive defect that he has. Bipolarism is definitely one of them...

Also, at the end of the day, the guy had the gall to ask me if I wanted a ride from him. That's all I need. Him and I, no witnesses....

/rage

/disorganized vent
 
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Just ignore him... although that might be hard to do with some people

At least try not to get into trouble because of some jerk, it won't be worth it
 
I just hate it, when a guy doesn't respect a relationship.

When I meet a girl, and she has a bf and I manage to get close to her, I make it my solemn oath that no one tries to take this guy's girl.

I know what it feels like to be in a long-distance relationship... the waiting, the worrying, the shaky 'trust-tower', the virtual kisses, etc. It's hell.
 
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1.) To make matters worse, he's been giving me a bad look this whole day. As if to say, 'She should've hugged me!' *engage butthurtness*

2.) I know it's bad to say this about people, but I SERIOUSLY think there's a cognitive defect that he has. Bipolarism is definitely one of them...
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1.) Wow, very badass (Is that considered as strong language here on GTP? I'll gladly correct it if yes) of him. If that's the best he can do, treat him like air.

2.) Ok, hold it right there. No need to say bad stuff about the guy, even if he really isn't to your liking. One thing leads to another, I mean... If I were you I wouldn't like to suddenly find myself talking @#$! about him when he's not looking. Try to handle this more gently. Like...

*fades away*

Imagine yourself in untouched wilderness.

You breathe in the cleanest air you've ever experienced, slightly humid from the waterfall close by. Birds' wonderful chirping fills your ears as you try to islate yourself from the rest of the world, a gentle melody traveling through the clean mountain air. You see incredibly colorful flowers here and there, and the greenest grass you could possibly imagine. You get into the water, but only deep enough to reach your knees before trying to swim in the warm river. You wash your hands and your face in the crystal-clean stream, and even dare to drink a bit. Afterwards, you take a look into it, absolutely amazed by how incredibly clear it is.

You can easily see the face of the guy you're trying to drown.
 
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Hahahaha! Only on a car forum will a relationship receive a car analogy....

But yeah, just go and talk to her. She's a human being. She understands nervousness, emotions, etc. Don't think of her as a do or die situation.

Be yourself, and just talk.
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Wut? It was a pretty good analogy and took lots of thinking... About 30sec which is a lot!
 
@Madertus that was deep mate...

We've learned to ignore him. The girls learn a lot quicker.

It's just moments like that, that piss me off.

I hate people who live with jealousy and quit life.

'I can't get a girl for myself, so instead of improving myself I'm going to hate everyone I see....'
 
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