The General Relationship Thread

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GTboyz
Whoopss ! Why the hell did i reply "go for it" lol. My brain havent turned on back then, just woke up from a sleep.

@Crispy : just ask her number as soon as possible. Dont wait too long.

Hey guys, is it ok if you tell friend who is a girl that she looks great with the new haircut she just has ? I dont have any feelings with this one and i dont want to give any ideas. Or maybe im just thinking too much.
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If you do it the right way, there's no problems at all. Just mention it nonchalantly in conversation. Don't walk over smiling and say "Yo hair iz niice" :lol:
 
A compliment is a compliment.
 
nk4e
Physical, verbal probably. A relationship that she was limited on what she can do and cannot. Like I am wondering if I am making a move also. I like having her around but we don't talk at work, so I tend to keep to my Ebooks. She has been through a tough life so far. Her ex broke her collarbone and she had a bad car accident. Otherwise, she is very talkative, friendly, has a nice smile, hardworking, cute but she does keep things to herself.
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Ok, give her some time and space, she might not want to be in a relationship anymore, but you should let her know that you're going for one with her (are you?), without crossing the line so much at all, she's been on a hard life? ok, follow my advice, she might identify you as a treat if you get too close too soon...

Just try to get the "accidental" bump and try to start a conversation
 
I just hope that I don't push this one too far. I tend to get busy myself or try to stay busy so prayers or it is luck.
 
It'll be alright
 
cnd01
If you do it the right way, there's no problems at all. Just mention it nonchalantly in conversation. Don't walk over smiling and say "Yo hair iz niice" :lol:
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lol no we're just hanging out together with a bunch of other friends. I did say it a bit jokingly so it should be fine. I guess...

@nk4e : just take your time man, she might be a bit traumatized about getting in a relationship again. Just be her friend but don't overdo it, you don't want to end up in you-know-what...
 
GTboyz
lol no we're just hanging out together with a bunch of other friends. I did say it a bit jokingly so it should be fine. I guess...
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You're a-ok then. Don't worry about that. One compliment to a friend doesn't hurt anything at all especially if you really do mean it
 
I hope it grows into something more. I just hate seeing how she was treated throughout her life. But I think I am at the point of my life where I need to focus on me badly....really badly.
 
nk4e
I hope it grows into something more. I just hate seeing how she was treated throughout her life. But I think I am at the point of my life where I need to focus on me badly....really badly.
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Generally, focusing on yourself will work wonders 👍
 
Acta non Verba. Derived from Latin, meaning 'Action not Words'.

I've used this motto for years now, and I think the members that post in this thread need to consider adopting this mentality when asking a female/male out.

For those that are in High School, if you get turned down, it's NOT the end of the world. You've got a plethora of females/males to chase. Move on with an air of confidence and a smile on your face.

Trust me, when you get into University/College, you'll look back at the girls/boys in High School and have a laugh.
 
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Acta non Verba. Derived from Latin, meaning 'Action not Words'.

I've used this mottl for years now, and I think the members that post in this thread need to consider adopting this mentality when asking a female/male out.
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The wonderful thing about that motto is that it applies to all parts of your life. Not just relationships but work/school/and anything else that happens. Make it happen!
 
Would it be odd that I text my coworker " hey, have a good day" ?
 
nk4e
Would it be odd that I text my coworker " hey, have a good day" ?
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Kind-of. If there was a conversation that could lead to you saying that, it'd be better.
 
I don't find that odd. I use it all the time. It's only odd if you've already had a conversation with that coworker earlier on.

If you hadn't seen them the entire day it's fine.
 
Guess I'm going to get slapped later.

I **** you not, I barely even saw her today.
 
ProjectWHaT
Guess I'm going to get slapped later.

I **** you not, I barely even saw her today.
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"Barely" you disappoint me. :lol:

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A girl I might be interested in might be in the hospital. I have no way of knowing, and to top it all off, I have the dirtiest clothes in the world on right now because mechanic.

But that doesn't dampen my mood. None of you could ruin this mood except Connor. Shush.
 
ITCC_Andrew
"Barely" you disappoint me. :lol:

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A girl I might be interested in might be in the hospital. I have no way of knowing, and to top it all off, I have the dirtiest clothes in the world on right now because mechanic.
But that doesn't dampen my mood. None of you could ruin this mood except Connor. Shush.
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I wish i was a mechanic. It would greatly help me take my mind off girls...
 
GTboyz
I wish i was a mechanic. It would greatly help me take my mind off girls...
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Yes. Because running around like a chicken with your head cut off is better. :lol:


Sooooo much work to do... Such little experience... Sooo many tires! *goes to have nightmares about Kumho tires*
 
ITCC_Andrew
Sooooo much work to do... Such little experience... Sooo many tires! *goes to have nightmares about Kumho tires*
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Because no other profession could possibly be as busy as a mechanic, right?
 
TB
Because no other profession could possibly be as busy as a mechanic, right?
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According to the Senna content thread, PD is.

But, this job (I started today) is new. I'm kinda meant to work hard, especially on the first day.

@GTboyz seems to think he would enjoy being a mechanic. Maybe. I'm just telling the truth about my incredible one dayof experience. Disregard as you inevitably will, or chalk this one up as me being me.

I don't even care right now - I'm happy about this job
 
ITCC_Andrew
Yes. Because running around like a chicken with your head cut off is better. :lol:


Sooooo much work to do... Such little experience... Sooo many tires! *goes to have nightmares about Kumho tires*
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Haha i know it looks like hard work but who knows, maybe i will enjoy being a mechanic, maybe i won't. But if its anything about cars i would like it though.

You said you're happy about the job. I envy you man. I hope i will enjoy being a mechanic if i manage to work as one someday.
 
I've still not talked to this girl yet, all because the class has been spread out in the library and I don't see her any other time to not worry about making anything awkward for her. I'm just going to go for it as if I have nothing to lose. I also keep telling myself that she won't bite, and if she wanted to bite me, she'd have done it by now.
 
Johnny1996
I've still not talked to this girl yet, all because the class has been spread out in the library and I don't see her any other time to not worry about making anything awkward for her. I'm just going to go for it as if I have nothing to lose. I also keep telling myself that she won't bite, and if she wanted to bite me, she'd have done it by now.
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Best of luck mate. At the end of the day, the only way of ever getting anywhere with a girl is asking her, or at least hinting. 👍

I know it's easier said than done, but if you just expect the girl to randomly fall into your arms out of the blue then you will be waiting for a very long time ;).
 
Ryanswannell
Best of luck mate. At the end of the day, the only way of ever getting anywhere with a girl is asking her, or at least hinting. 👍

I know it's easier said than done, but if you just expect the girl to randomly fall into your arms out of the blue then you will be waiting for a very long time ;).
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Thanks. :)
 
Talked to the girl a little today. She said my hair was soft after deciding to feel it. :lol: So far things are going good, only have two days to ask her number next week before school goes out, so wish me luck!
 
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