Good job buddy 👍Some of you guys may remember me posting about a girl that I liked, and also worked with.
Well, for about a month now I had really been wanting to ask her out, but I kept bottling it on fear of rejection.
However, today I decided to grow some balls and ask her if she'd like to go and hang out with each other outside of work. And...
She accepted my offer, and shortly afterwards we exchanged phone numbers
Finally, I'm getting somewhere 👍
Some of you guys may remember me posting about a girl that I liked, and also worked with.
Well, for about a month now I had really been wanting to ask her out, but I kept bottling it on fear of rejection.
However, today I decided to grow some balls and ask her if she'd like to go and hang out with each other outside of work. And...
She accepted my offer, and shortly afterwards we exchanged phone numbers
Finally, I'm getting somewhere 👍
If she does get back to you, you're free to advance 👍
Don't worry about it man. Don't give up! 👍 I think she's probably just busy
I hope so, after all she is in college and I think exams are taking place at the moment, so maybe studying/rest are her priorities at the moment, which is understandable.
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These past few pages have been populated with successes!There's success here and there on the relationship thread after all
Plus it turns out she's been liking me for about as long as I've been liking her, which surprised me a lot.
If she does get back to you, you're free to advance 👍
*fades away*
So... you guys remember that girl who got excited about my voOf course you don't, but who cares.
That party she was supposed to host is taking place on July 12th (as of now at least, it just got postponed).
From what I've heard, she is pretty damn excited about me... When a situation in which she talks about me to my pal's girlfriend (she's a good friend of hers) occurs, I think it's time to start wondering what the hell do I make of that.
I mean... We had a few chats, some of which turned out to last for even up to 2 1/2 hours. And although there's absolutely no denying that she's very kind and whatnot, I am by no means looking for a girlfriend.
I just hope she's not gonna be all over me on that party, because when my friend told me about this I was kinda... 'whoa!', I guess.
I don't want to end up as the bad guy here if it turns out I don't want to take another step with her.
And in all honesty, I don't view myself as boyfriend material. I don't even feel the need to maintain contact with people around me, let alone getting close to them...
Finally, I think that what my two pals did (which was getting me and that girl to know each other) was kind of unfair. They knew that I'm not trying to get close to anyone and I'm not, so to say, desperate for a relationship (I'm 100% sure I told them that). And I generally think that trying to get two people to know each other so they may potentially become a couple is always a terrible idea.
I don't know what to do, and I might need help soon...
Probably yes.
I hope so, after all she is in college and I think exams are taking place at the moment, so maybe studying/rest are her priorities at the moment, which is understandable.
It's just that if the roles were switched, I would make time to be with her, but maybe I'm just wired differently.
As I said before, I hope I'm just being paranoid. How things went yesterday seemed way too good to be true, and I'm just expecting this to blow up in my face.
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A little, but who cares? It sounds awesome, go and see what happens.
Damn, man. That's my dilemma. I don't care for people, I don't always need people. I do sometimes but I prefer being alone most of the time. I am an introvert, social awkwardness and all.
Dude, she could just be seriously busy. Give her some space for a day or 2 then invite her somewhere(or at least phrase the question) in a way that she can't refuseAnd there we go, just like that a little glimmer of hope has vanished
After waiting all day for her to tell me if she could make it or not , I decided to message her asking if she's free, and she's not.
I'd love to know what I'm doing wrong.
Wait, you've been broken up for a year and in that time frame, haven't spoke either? And now out of the blue, you've decided to initiate talking to her again just for the sake of telling her off?
