The General Relationship Thread

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Ishikawa M
Here's the thing.
Al isn't on GTPlanet. She probably doesn't even know what it is. I have Slash added on Facebook and he doesn't a lot, if ever, about Al. It's probably more of the undeserved trouble, except... he isn't anymore.
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Here's the thing. It doesn't matter what actually happens/happened. It matters only what she think is happening/happened.
 
Slash
Except I never once have spoken about this girl on FB period. Ever. Nada. Not one thing on my wall.

And I covered your points in my post. To my knowledge no one has said anything. The only people who know keep their mouths shut.
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Did you tell her that you never talk about the girl on FB ?

I'm thinking of your sis or mom looking at your post on GTP and told her about that but that doesn't seem possible ?
 
Johnny1996
Check where you're posting. ;)
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I'm sooorry. :C It was one of those moments where you thought you were on the thread you wanted to post on... and it isn't.
 
GTboyz
Did you tell her that you never talk about the girl on FB ?

I'm thinking of your sis or mom looking at your post on GTP and told her about that but that doesn't seem possible ?
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Nope GTP is entirely private. They have no access to GTP.

I have made it very clear to hear nothing was said and with that I confessed my feelings to her, which the respond to that was intriguing.

Nothing bad has happened at all. I told her to stop listening to most outsiders and come to me foor information from now on and she will.

Trust me, I have all bases covered and the only thing I, and a lot of my close friends can think of, is that she was searching for a way to break the tension on her end.

She's also supposed to be hanging out with me tomorrow provided her plans time schedule works out. She's busy most of the day. Eye exam in the morning and thenat some point a sernior class photo shoot.
 
Crispy
@CarManiac 425 She talked to me, she was the one who got my number from me, she liked me since the first time I talked to her and I didn't even suspect it because I was too "socially inept" to talk to her. .
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Sometimes it's just hard finding out if someone likes you by just looking the things they say and do towards you (body language also)

Once you reach a point it's easier to know. It's interesting to me having to find out if someone is just being playful and talkative with me or flirting. It's fun honestly but never take things the wrong way, and usually if a person is in a good mood just play along with them.
 
GTboyz
Well seems like the situation is getting better right @Slash ?
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It was never really a bad situation, just a few things that confused me a bit. Things are progressing as well as they ever have, and now that she knows my true feelings for her, things, and talking, will be a little easier on both of us. :)
 
Well, the one advantage of finally signing up on Facebook is that I got in touch with my old best friend from high school, and we're gonna be having a beer this week-end.

However no reply from the girl. With that said maybe I should just forget about this. I mean, I live 200 miles away from her, I only saw her twice in my life so far and frankly don't know her too well, and like I said I'll be lucky if I see her again before the year's end.

There is another girl at my job that I quite like, however I don't think she feels anything towards me, or if she does, she's doing a fine job hiding it. The problem in this situation is that I just have a hard time breaking the ice, I try talking to her, but our chats always end up being mundane conversations that end after 2-3 exchanges. That's always been a huge problem for me, maintaining conversation; I just can't seem to do it when I'm nervous, which I always seem to be around girls.
 
If anyone of you are swooning over a women, don't attempt this.. please.

 
Question: What do you do if the girl you like is getting called a s*&t even if she isn't, do you stand up for her or let her fight her own battles
 
I'm am kind of in that situtation with the woman I love. She's been beaten down so much that she told me she is tired of being the person at fault, taken advantage of, treated like 🤬 and that she wants to build her confidence back up. Those are her words, not mine.

And then I proceed to tell her how I felt about everything. Told her she's got someone right here in front of her willing to give her the whole world if I could. A lot more was said, but lets just say she was more receptive after I told her my true feelings.

She won't forget it if you stand up for her. That would be the gentleman thing to do.
 
Slash
I think I might need to start saving for a round metal thing that slips around your finger with a shiny rock on it.

Like now.
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I think I might need to throw up reading all this drama you keep posting about this girl you apparently just started dating. You're as bad as Andrew falling in love after banging a girl on a one night stand.
 
McLaren
I think I might need to throw up reading all this drama you keep posting about this girl you apparently just started dating. You're as bad as Andrew falling in love after banging a girl on a one night stand.
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:cheers:

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McLaren
I think I might need to throw up reading all this drama you keep posting about this girl you apparently just started dating. You're as bad as Andrew falling in love after banging a girl on a one night stand.
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It's more of a thought than anything, like a precaution. Saving money is always a good thing for big things.

Its nothing set in stone, just something that I'd like to happen eventually 👍

And no, we aren't together yet. Something for me to think about. I probably won't anyways, but it sure would be nice...


Wouldn't it be something, if ya know, I actually gave a 🤬 about someone? :rolleyes: And btw, this is the same girl I've liked for a looonnnggg time. It's just now hitting off. If you don't want to read about it, then stay out of the thread or put me on your ignore list because I'm not going to stop. You can't possibly think that post was serious. I'm not stupid enough to make that kind of move on someone THAT fast...

For once in my life something is actually going right. So I'm not going to shut up about it.
 
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What if I want to do the Carlton?
 
I done what you guys said, and stood up for her, but after I did it, she replies rather angrily saying "I'm not 2 anymore, I can stand up for myself". I just don't think she understands that 3+ teenage against her is not going to end well for her. A couple of a days ago I saw her properly upset for the first time and it wasn't good. She took a day of school and cried all day. I just don't know if she realizes she's doing herself more harm than she is good. At least I won't see her for 2 weeks until we have a basketball camp together.
 
Slash
It's more of a thought than anything, like a precaution. Saving money is always a good thing for big things.
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Saving money for a ring when you're not dating is not a precaution.
Its nothing set in stone, just something that I'd like to happen eventually 👍

And no, we aren't together yet. Something for me to think about. I probably won't anyways, but it sure would be nice...
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So, you aren't even together & you're thinking out loud about saving up for a ring because it's something you'd like to happen?

Wouldn't it be something, if ya know, I actually gave a 🤬 about someone? :rolleyes: And btw, this is the same girl I've liked for a looonnnggg time. It's just now hitting off. If you don't want to read about it, then stay out of the thread or put me on your ignore list because I'm not going to stop. You can't possibly think that post was serious. I'm not stupid enough to make that kind of move on someone THAT fast...

For once in my life something is actually going right. So I'm not going to shut up about it.
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Caring about someone is one thing. You talk like you're ready to give this girl the world just because of her past.

I'll give you some advice before I read some Know-It-All teenager BS. My last ex. was a similar girl to the one you've kept posting about. Parental issues, low confidence, etc. I tried to put the world on a platter for her to show her I actually cared; I took her to nice places, paid for her nearly every time, and so forth. She had issues being seen as a slut just because she slept with a few guys in high school & I over looked it because I was the nice guy. But in the end, it only taught me that there's zero point to act such a way early into a relationship because men can not change how women think. Only they can rebuild themselves, usually through other women, which in this case, sounds like what your mom is doing since you post that they talk.

You've already told her how you feel about her & that you'd give her the world, and you're not together after that? Now you look like the friend whose shoulder she can cry on when she needs to. If your true intentions are to have a relationship with her, I'd start backing off now that you put it all out in the open. Otherwise, the longer you both converse & the more you spill out that you'll be there for her, the more you look like that friend.

Keep posting all you want, because I never once told you to stop. However, I'll be laughing my ass off if I eventually read a post that nothing ever came to fruition & you'll know exactly why. You put the ball in her court to either date you or not date you because you've placed yourself as her savior on the table. You can't top that card.
 
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