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I'd hope. Things might never be the same between you guys now. Hard telling.
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I'll be fine :sly:
 
Dealing with a broken heart = the worst feeling ever. I'm having a hard time still :(
 
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Dealing with a broken heart = the worst feeling ever. I'm having a hard time still :(
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Start talking to other people mate. Talk to other girls. Just talk! Don't even think about the conversation. Just talk to talk. You'll get to know more and more people and see that they're better than your crush.
 
I tried that and ended up with a similar result. I started getting attached sowly and got it thrown in my face again but not as bad.
 
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I tried that and ended up with a similar result. I started getting attached sowly and got it thrown in my face again but not as bad.
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Meant to quote not like. My bad.

I had my heart shattered when I found out about a girl's bf through a snapchat pic with her half-naked next to him in bed.

This was the girl I stayed up all night worrying about. This was the girl I screwed up my priorities for.

I had some anger built up for her actions. I didn't hate her, I hated the fact she didn't say "I have a bf. You don't have to worry." Instead she became an attention whore. Apparently one guy wasn't enough.

I then hated myself for actually falling for her. I vented to some friends who were neutral on the matter and then just started talking to the girl I'm talking to now.


Four months of worrying down the drain in one second. Four months of emotional turmoil ignited in that one night.

Took me four weeks to get over it. It's a slow process but it works.

Just talk to someone.
 
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Dealing with a broken heart = the worst feeling ever. I'm having a hard time still :(
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I feel you mate, although right now that heartbroken feeling is starting to change to disappointed and mad.

I'm disappointed because this girl just made a fool of almost everyone. What a waste of a beautiful face.
I'm mad at myself for falling for this girl even when i had suspicions of her being a bit of an attention whore. Sometimes i'm so angry it made me want to go back in time just to punch my other self in the face for being so stupid.
 
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Just told one of my best (if not the best) female friends that I have feeling for her. 2015 has started itself with a personal achievement.
 
So, there is this girl that i like, I'm not sure if she likes me back in the same way that I like her and I could use some advice. First of all, I broke up with my last gf like a month ago, but that doesn't matter. So on to this girl that I like, we just started hanging out(she has a twin sister btw) and it seems like she likes me but I'm not completely sure. I asked to homecoming and she said yes, we saw a movie together and it went pretty good. Whenever we hangout she always is by herself, but we are never together around her group of friends. I hope I explained this properly. Any advice would help.
 
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So, there is this girl that i like, I'm not sure if she likes me back in the same way that I like her and I could use some advice. First of all, I broke up with my last gf like a month ago, but that doesn't matter. So on to this girl that I like, we just started hanging out(she has a twin sister btw) and it seems like she likes me but I'm not completely sure. I asked to homecoming and she said yes, we saw a movie together and it went pretty good. Whenever we hangout she always is by herself, but we are never together around her group of friends. I hope I explained this properly. Any advice would help.
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Sounds perfectly fine. Keep doing what you're doing.
 
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Even though she didnt invite me to be with her and her friends tonight?
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Dude, chill. It's New Year's Eve.

People like to be with family and close friends.

Keep at it. Be you. If she doesn't like you, then so be it. Many other fish in the sea.


BTW

HAPPY NEW YEAR!
 
So, after wresteling back and forth for 4 months of friendship, I finally overcame the barrier and I'm now in a relationship. I was with her on the 30th of Dcember, and that was the turning point since we haven't seen eachother for a long time which is wierd because we live 20km away, which is insignificant.

Anyway, I am a very very happy person right now!
 
I need some more advice... so, I asked this girl to homecoming very casually, basically I just asked her when were talking. I feel horrible and guilty now because everyone is getting asked out in a special way including her twin sister. Should I ask her again?
 
I wouldn't worry about it too much. A girl isn't going to instantly decide that you're the one for them just because you made a bit more effort in asking them out. The end result, whether it was done mid-conversation or spectacularly romantic is still exactly the same; a yes or no answer.

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Recently, I've developed a crush of sorts on an old school friend. I instantly wrote it off as I knew well enough nothing would never happen since she now spends the majority of her time at a university 3 hours away. Plus, she's one of the few girls from school I can pleasantly talk to, and I don't really want to ruin that. No problems.

The problem comes now is that (for the first time) I feel somewhat ready for a relationship, but I flat out don't talk to enough girls to even hint at one. Worse still is that a part of me really wants me to tell her, even though it'd be useless. I'm not gonna BS you and say 'oooh I only love her' because I don't; I know full well if I get into the swing of talking to others that I won't even worry about this other girl. It's just I don't really know where to start.
 
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I wouldn't worry about it too much. A girl isn't going to instantly decide that you're the one for them just because you made a bit more effort in asking them out. The end result, whether it was done mid-conversation or spectacularly romantic is still exactly the same; a yes or no answer.

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Recently, I've developed a crush of sorts on an old school friend. I instantly wrote it off as I knew well enough nothing would never happen since she now spends the majority of her time at a university 3 hours away. Plus, she's one of the few girls from school I can pleasantly talk to, and I don't really want to ruin that. No problems.

The problem comes now is that (for the first time) I feel somewhat ready for a relationship, but I flat out don't talk to enough girls to even hint at one. Worse still is that a part of me really wants me to tell her, even though it'd be useless. I'm not gonna BS you and say 'oooh I only love her' because I don't; I know full well if I get into the swing of talking to others that I won't even worry about this other girl. It's just I don't really know where to start.
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She did say yes when I asked her, I just didn't want her to be jealous of the way her twin sister got asked.
 
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She did say yes when I asked her, I just didn't want her to be jealous of the way her twin sister got asked.
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Sometimes being straight to the point is better than beating around the bush with a complicated proposal.

It's okay. Don't worry about it.

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Feeling really empty. I've got everything I've wanted... and yet... I don't really want a gf but I kinda want someone there.

Sure I call girl friends up all the time and go out for some coffee on campus, but I just listen to them. I don't really pay attention just stare into their eyes and think.

Every now and then say "Mhm yep." "No she/he didn't..."

Not really making a connection with anyone.

I look straight into a girl's eyes, and I don't feel that rush. You know that feeling, the "Oh 🤬 she saw me!" panic.

Nowadays I stare people down. I don't know why.
 
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An update from my last post.

The Sunday before new years, I asked her if she wanted to go to the city with me to see the new years fire works. We talked a bit and she said her parents said she couldn't. I'm 100% sure she isn't lying. She has strict parents, we've talked about it before.

On new years, a few minutes after the clock struck 12, I texted her and we talked a bit about life in general, you know just normal teen stuff lol, and new year resolutions.

Today was the third day of school since vacation. I'm still taking to her everyday during and in between classes. I feel like she enjoys taking to me more. Before, it felt like she was just talking to me to be nice but now I think she truly wants to talk. She also smiles a bit more when we're taking I think. I also noticed she would glance at me more often.

Sometimes I feel like I'm over analyzing everything and that I should just so thinking and start doing stuff than dwell on thoughts. But I am really proud of myself with actually talking to a girl. I definitely would have never dreamed of doing that. I've always been quiet, shy, and isolated before.
 
Decided that tonight at work I will approach one of my colleagues with whom I've been in love for quite a while now. So later tonight I will either be very, very happy, or having a few at the pub. But at least I'm gonna have this off my back.
 
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Decided that tonight at work I will approach one of my colleagues with whom I've been in love for quite a while now. So later tonight I will either be very, very happy, or having a few at the pub. But at least I'm gonna have this off my back.
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You're not in love. You may be lusting after her, but you can't possibly know if you love her if you haven't been in a relationship for a reasonable amount of time.

That said, good luck, I hope things go your way.
 

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