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Originally posted by boombexus

The way Sony put it seemed like he was gonna get a piece on July 22nd at 4:45 pm. :lol: Like he had it that planned out. haha!
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:O

What I actually meant was...

I think I will do it soon

No! Not on July 22nd at 4:45pm!:lol:

Originally posted by Fidel Castrol
This kid thinks this is a chat room.
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He's probably looking for an Asian Chick, to have cybersex with.:lol:

Speaking of Cybersex. You go into an AOL chatroom and that's all girls say.

I'm 14/m/califournia and I'm randy.
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:eek:
 
13, I was pretty farking high at the time and the chick her name was Pam. A lucious red head might I add. Petite body. As for regrets of it. . . The only regret I had about it was I never saw the girl again. Apparently now my friend Kim who introduced us both, gives me updates on seeing her around. In the end though, I believe that Kim will be one of the possible ladies I might marry.
 
I think he meant that studly69 is madly obsessed with asians.

I mean he even went to the trouble of starting a thread about asians and how much he likes them in the GT1 forum of all places. :odd:
 
Originally posted by boombexus
I think he meant that studly69 is madly obsessed with asians.

I mean he even went to the trouble of starting a thread about asians and how much he likes them in the GT1 forum of all places. :odd:
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Oh...I didn't catch that. :O

Asians in GT1? I must have missed that part....better pull out my playstation, find GT1 and see for myself.
 
Originally posted by Mike Rotch
Smokes.

Cobra, Sand and I are virtually the only one who havent hid the salamy.
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I havent either. As said in my post on page 2. We came close (we were almost nude). We didnt want to mess up our relationship. We do kiss alot though :lol:...
 
Originally posted by Jpec07
Welll, I put my $.02 in earlier, now here's the otherr $.98:
For the one thing, I am in a good christian home, and can't keep secrets of the kind from my parents (and chances are that that kind of thing would get me out of the house).
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So that's how they do things in "good christian homes"?

Also, from what I've heard, waiting for this kind of thing until after marriage is the way to go. You see, I've read my share of articles on the topic, and ithas been scientifically proven that whenever you sleep with someone (in that way), you become connected; your brainwaves altered slightly and permanently. So in essence, you're giving up a part of yourself to them (and they to you). However, if you end up splitting up, that part of you that they took away will never be yours again (it won't ever be anywhere near you again).
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Are you serious? Scientifically proven? Even if this event you describe actually happens, there is no reason to assume it is bad.

A third reason why I want to wait (kind of a blessing actually) is that people in my region don't consider me attractive...at all. I mean, I could show you people my pics (I mean facial and pics from dances that I've been to and such; and I'm sure you would agree that I'm not top material), but what would that do? This "blessing" has allowed me to not even be temped into this stuff (I've never even had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl in that way before; although I do have some of the closest friends of the female variety I have ever had...). Well, I'm still trying to find love and commitment before anything sensual happens. When I get married (years away), if this place is still around, I will let you guys know...
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No offense, but this is pathetic... not that you haven't been intimate with with a woman before, but the lengths you have gone to, to justify it to yourself. I think it was you who posted earlier in this thread something about "not being at that point in life yet", which was a perfectly respectable position. But this, pa-leeze... unattractiveness a "blessing"? Giving up parts of yourself to be lost forever? "Scientifically proven"? You had me convinced you were comfortable with your virginity. Then you made this post.
 
Originally posted by Concept
I never planned it to happen. It was perfect when it happened for me.

She and I were on her bed making out and she ended up on top of me and we continued to make out. After a couple of minutes she stopped, looked at me, and said, "Matt, I'm ready." It was the sweetest thing ever. She and I have no regrets. We're still together and loving each day we spend together.
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No! No! You're less of a person now. You've lost some of yourself! You better marry her. You are going to marry her right?!
 
Originally posted by milefile
So that's how they do things in "good christian homes"?


Are you serious? Scientifically proven? Even if this event you describe actually happens, there is no reason to assume it is bad.


No offense, but this is pathetic... not that you haven't been intimate with with a woman before, but the lengths you have gone to, to justify it to yourself. I think it was you who posted earlier in this thread something about "not being at that point in life yet", which was a perfectly respectable position. But this, pa-leeze... unattractiveness a "blessing"? Giving up parts of yourself to be lost forever? "Scientifically proven"? You had me convinced you were comfortable with your virginity. Then you made this post.
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I think he means his "unattractiveness" is a blessing becasue due to it he hasn't been aproached, thus eliminating the temptation ;) Hes not trying to justify anything. Hes just explaining his "blessing" helps keep him from having to make those kinds of decisons.

As for the being kicked out thing, He doesn't mean they're just gonna throw him out on the street. But from his parents point of view, if he were to hide such a thing from them and they found out, they would lose all trust in him and feel that he has betrayed his moral values. No parent would just throw their child out becasue of that (I hope not) but as I said their trust would be gone and it would take some time and alot of hard work to regain it.
 
Originally posted by milefile
No offense, but this is pathetic... not that you haven't been intimate with with a woman before, but the lengths you have gone to, to justify it to yourself. I think it was you who posted earlier in this thread something about "not being at that point in life yet", which was a perfectly respectable position. But this, pa-leeze... unattractiveness a "blessing"? Giving up parts of yourself to be lost forever? "Scientifically proven"? You had me convinced you were comfortable with your virginity. Then you made this post.
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I am secure in my virginity (note how I worded my post; people in my area think I'm ugly, but I do know a fair amount of people from other areas who have said that they found me attractive...). However, I won't give this trait of virginity up to someone who isn't willing to spend the rest of their life with me. Why can't you see why I consider it a blessing? Be honest now...

Originally posted by skylineGTR_guy
I think he means his "unattractiveness" is a blessing becasue due to it he hasn't been aproached, thus eliminating the temptation ;) Hes not trying to justify anything. Hes just explaining his "blessing" helps keep him from having to make those kinds of decisons.

As for the being kicked out thing, He doesn't mean they're just gonna throw him out on the street. But from his parents point of view, if he were to hide such a thing from them and they found out, they would lose all trust in him and feel that he has betrayed his moral values. No parent would just throw their child out becasue of that (I hope not) but as I said their trust would be gone and it would take some time and alot of hard work to regain it.
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Precisely. :)
 
Originally posted by Jpec07
I am secure in my virginity (note how I worded my post; people in my area think I'm ugly, but I do know a fair amount of people from other areas who have said that they found me attractive...). However, I won't give this trait of virginity up to someone who isn't willing to spend the rest of their life with me. Why can't you see why I consider it a blessing? Be honest now...



Precisely. :)
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Right:tup:
 
Originally posted by Jpec07
Why can't you see why I consider it a blessing? Be honest now...
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I already was. Why can't you see that?

The more words required to justify something, especially when it was already accepted, the more suspicious I become.
 
Alright, a rose is a rose, I'm ugly and am trying to be optimistic about it, yet you are sitting here because you don't want me to consider myself lucky. Maybe if you could step into my shoes for a minute and see inside my mind, you'd understand. But for now, let's just call the whole thing off...
 
Ok, I admit it, I did make that bit of it up, but the "talk" my parents had with me a little while ago stated that, and so I assumed that it had been proven scientifically (corrupted reasoning of a 12-year-old; that was 3 years ago and I have no idea why I didn't disprove my crazy conclusion). Whole thing called off. People may continue posting in the way before this--this fiasko or whatsit--happened.
 
On easpect of christianity that far too many people forget is forgiveness and acceptance.

You could call my parents devout Christian. In fact, my mother just completed her term as head of the American Baptist women's Vermont/NH chapter.

My brother came home at 15 years old and had to tell our parents that his girlfriend was pregnant. Shocked eveyone, considering they met while at a christian bible camp. 18 months later, the second kid was on the way. Yet neither her parents (bible thumpers more than my parents) nor my parents wanted to throw them out on their own. They were upset, but they copped with it. Now 13 years later, the two of them are still married, and are raising two boys.

Of course, that's only the situation I watched unfold.

AO
 
Concept, as soon as I saw the title of this thread, I knew exactly what it was about. :) To answer your question, I was 17. I don't remember the details of what happened, other than I was the one who initiated things. I don't have contact with him anymore besides the child support checks I get each week. I don't regret it, because I can't imagine my life without my girls.
 
Yeah, sorry about that night Tat, we got a little out of control.

Anyways, I too lost mine at 17. To a girl I spent of my high school days with. High school sweetheart that lives in Indiana now.
 
Wow, long time no see, Tat!

I did it first at the age of 16. I thought it kinda sucked at that time, it didn't feel like i was expecting. Must have been the girl's fault... :lol:
 

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