The General Relationship Thread

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adam46
Oh boy, Valentine's is coming.
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Don't get tripped up on Valentines day. It's just a scheme for girls and corporations to get your money, time and presents. :p

Just tread lightly around her. If she's up and talking to you make your move right then and there.

Besides, at-least you actually have someone you are interested in.
 
Custom878
"It's the most depressing time of the year."
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Meh, last year I just chilled and took photos around town. Wasn't really depressed. I don't know about this year. I might just hang around coffee shops and chat with people if possible.

It's only depressing if you make it, almost the same as "it's only awkward if you make it". Just do what you usually do and take your mind off the obvious for a bit.
 
Guys, I got a date for Valentines Day :sly:
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AlvaroF
Go for the glasses. It's the way to go :dopey:
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The only thing I've learn from women is that it appears that going on a buying spree can really help you recover from bad love experiences...

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Oh Valentine's is coming, but I forgot to get a date, again :banghead:

Completly normal day for me. Being at school, playing darts with my (single) mates, have a couple of beers, go back to school, head home, sleep.

MoLiEG
The only thing I've learn from women is that it appears that going on a buying spree can really help you recover from bad love experiences...

:D
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I might just work, like it does for them (they go on buying spree to try and look more beautiful, so that boys crawl back to them. Now think about it)
 
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Meeting the ex today at work so she can pick the rest of her stuff up, not seen or spoke to her since we broke up. I have no idea how this will go. But I am seeing a friend of mine tonight who is female so that will cheer me up. ;)
 
I've heard this before and I heard it again today which makes it all the more poignant, my mates said "You're so nice, how the hell haven't you got a girlfriend yet?". A question which I would love answering but so far is a mystery. I'm not going to say it doesn't bother me at all because at times (one recently) I've just had spikes of depression pondering on it. I know deep down my time will eventually come and that being the nice guy now will have it's positives later in life but being my age I see anything more than a year away as eternity.
 
Callumfromleeds
I've heard this before and I heard it again today which makes it all the more poignant, my mates said "You're so nice, how the hell haven't you got a girlfriend yet?". A question which I would love answering but so far is a mystery. I'm not going to say it doesn't bother me at all because at times (one recently) I've just had spikes of depression pondering on it. I know deep down my time will eventually come and that being the nice guy now will have it's positives later in life but being my age I see anything more than a year away as eternity.
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You'll find it easier and easier with age to be the nice guy. Girls have a really distorted viewpoint on what they want when they're young. Part of it is "I'm not looking to get married. I want to have fun" Another part of it is how all girls go through the period where the bad boy is what they want because the unpredictability and :censored:hole ish nature comes off as attractive, fun, and exciting. It's not their minds they think with in those cases. Depending on the maturity of the girl, they'll grow out of it sooner or later. Point being, find one that's got her stuff together and grown up, and she'll appreciate the nice guys like you and I
 
I got 2 girls who like me, I have been friends with both of them for awhile and both of them are best friends. Thats great right? :banghead:

Ok you know what, Apparently a lot of girls have been adding me on Facebook, and saying im cute, and extremely flirty.


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That's better than having none :D

But not good either, decisions have to be made.
 
cant believe im more interested in this thread than the GT6 thread lol

anyway, i never have a relationship before. the closest one is comforting my best friend who i used to like, then she tried to friendzone me. Or did she ?

she gave me present on my birthday though, she never did that ever. Maybe she wanted me as a rebound ?

good thing i dont have feelings for her anymore back then, i would have fallen for that.
 
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Making plans for a good Valentine's day :)
 
Well I have nothing for Valentine's day but I have a gig the day after so that should make up for any depression/disappointment. :)
 
cnd01
Making plans for a good Valentine's day :)
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So am I...

(Here we go again... Yeah, I'm completely insane :lol:)

I'm just doing it for teh lulz...
 
What I'm gonna say here is that its so annoying being very shy when it comes to girls. Then make it worse you think you have the courage to finally say something and have a relapse so to speak.

'Nother note, there's a girl that I think likes me who sits next to me in English class but I have no darn idea. She's a hockey fan, though not of my favorite team, but that's too small to worry about. As I said I'm very shy when it comes to talking to girls, as well as damn nervous.

Once in English class last year, a girl that I was attracted to said hi to me but I couldn't audibly say hi back I was so nervous. At that point, I mentally powerbombed myself through a table, like below.

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I was planning on approaching her today but I never got a chance to approach her. :c
 
3 months its been since I was left. 3 months. During that time I've decided not to think about what's happened to me in the past and to slam the door shut on it and open a new one.


I've decided that the single life isn't for me. I feel likes part of me is missing; a hole that somehow needs to be filled.


I have a very close friend to me. Years ago, I would have kicked myself for what I have been thinking the past day or so. I've known her for years but within the past year or so we have gotten pretty close. She has been there for me through thick and thin. When I got dumped, she got ahold of me at 4 am and we chatted until she had to go to work. We share interests; she's very into cars and wouldn't mind learning a thing or two. She goes to the drag strip and races her car! :) She likes my type of music for the most part. We go to dinner (with others sometimes), have caught movies together, she buys me stuff (T shirts, food an other stuff), she comes to my house and stays for a long time (her and my mom are pretty close) hell she even drove an hour away to come hang out while I was on vacation. We have taken long walks together, have even kissed a few times (playfully) and jokingly flirt. I get along with her family really well, her step dad, mom and 2 sisters (her and 1 sister graduated with me). When I'm over sometimes her parents will order pizza etc for us. I've spent the night at her house before (with my ex however) and partied with her. I've hung out with her more than most of my friends and we have been though a lot of situations the average person wouldn't normally find themselves in. I've fixed her snowmobile (in the process actually) and overall its just a good mix.

Never once have I ever thought about her in that way, at least not until recently.

She recently started dating this kid from college and I didn't think much of it at first. When she came over the other afternoon he was brought up and I found myself getting jealous and wanted her to shut up about him. At that point I realized I might have something brewin inside me. I don't want it to be weird or anything and I don't know how to approach the situation in the future say they break up. I don't know of I want to risk rejection and losing a best friend in the process. What do you all suggest I do. I know its a bit early to jump into anything after coming out of a 10 month relationship (not to mention te previous 4 months prior to) or so. If anything were to happen it probably won't for a long time (at least a few months). The way she was talking on Facebook today I don't now how her current relationship stands but I'm not sure its too great ATM.
 
Hey guys, I havent posted here in a while, but one of the last ones I did, I talked about this girl I really liked. Well, now I really like her, and Ive been thinking of a way to try to ask her out. I have an idea, but I think its kind of a weird/cheesy way of asking her out:

For valentine's day, ou schools lets you purchase flowers, and similar items, put a note on it, and deliver it to anyones 2nd hour. I was thinking of sending her one, since Im in her 3rd hour. My only problems are that I dont know what to say when she does come into my class, and I feel the whole idea is extremely cheesy... what do you guys think?
 
Lol, I came to notice that all of my classes have all of the interesting girls sitting on the other side of the room. It would be awkward if I just started playing musical chairs. I'm bored with my social life. I'm feeling the consequences of not giving a **** about others..
 
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