The General Relationship Thread

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Ryanswannell
I'm not quite sure the same thing would happen to much of an extent, for two reasons. First, works different shifts to me for the most part, except for maybe an hour or two every fortnight when our shifts overlap.

Secondly, she seems to me like a pretty shy girl, which leads me to believe she probably wouldn't go around telling others if a rejection does happen.

Thanks very much for the advice though 👍
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You might be ok then, sounds your situation is a little different. The coworker I asked out I saw kind of regularly, 3-4 nights a week on average. She was in a different department though, so it wasn't like we were working right next to each other.

Also, when I said things got awkward, I meant that things weren't the same between us after I tried to ask her out. Before she would talk/joke around and sometimes take her breaks with me so we could talk.

Afterward, she avoided me and didn't talk/joke around as she did before. Like she didn't even want to be friends afterward. That's probably the part that hurt the most.

Hope this doesn't discourage you from asking this girl out, just warning that asking out a coworker can be risky.

I hope she does. I'm definitely going to ask her at some point when I feel the opportunity arises, because the only way I'll ever find out is if I ask her.

I'll keep you guys updated for sure ;)
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Good luck to you then, hope it goes well. 👍
 
Well, it appears I may have waited too long to start talking to this girl, because it seems as though she has a new boyfriend, and it isn't me. I'm really worried that she did like me, but has moved on, and I feel like I've broken her heart. However, I'd rather have her happy and me sad instead of the other way around.

Also, I've not noticed any obvious signs of a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and I've seen her talking to a few other guys before, so this guy could just be good friends with her.
 
Everytime i manage to get out, there's always something that tries to get me back in. In this case, i just had a dream that she suddenly has a boyfriend, the feeling when i know about that in the dream literally came like what Max Payne said "point blank shot to the face". I have said few days ago that i have moved on and there is always things like this that could make me thinking about her again.

God i hope that's the last of that, i don't want to fall in the same again.
 
Johnny1996
Well, it appears I may have waited too long to start talking to this girl, because it seems as though she has a new boyfriend, and it isn't me.
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Not a very convincing argument.
Johnny1996
I'm really worried that she did like me, but has moved on, and I feel like I've broken her heart. However, I'd rather have her happy and me sad instead of the other way around.
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You make it sound like she's lost forever. IF, and that's pretty big if, she is dating this guy, it might only last a week. Or it could be years...
Johnny1996
Also, I've not noticed any obvious signs of a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and I've seen her talking to a few other guys before, so this guy could just be good friends with her.
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Then get the hell over to her and find out! Worst case, she is dating the dude and you get puncheded in the face. Small price to pay, amirite?
 
Trust me, @TB, everyday is a new day, and every free moment is a chance to think, act, do, or all three. Those points are what I'm keeping in my mind, and I will do just what you said. :)
 
I'm guessing 1996 was the year going Johnny 1996 was born. I know from experience, relationships don't work out long-term at that age.

See what happens, Johnny. 99% chance it works out for you, to at least have the chance to ask her out.
 
ITCC_Andrew
I'm guessing 1996 was the year going Johnny 1996 was born. I know from experience, relationships don't work out long-term at that age.

See what happens, Johnny. 99% chance it works out for you, to at least have the chance to ask her out.
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For future relationships and marring you are right, but all the people I know that are in a relationship have been ther for than a year. I even know two couples of my age (I am from 1997) that kept them for 3-years and counting.
 
I know of one couple, yes, only one, out of like 100, which is still going. That one started at age 14, and is still going at 21.

One lesbian couple, I actually thought wolf get married... They are both heterosexual now. Oh, and one is pregnant and the other is an alcoholic.

149 couples, 4 pregnancies, 1 successful relationship. Many court battles from mom #2...


They don't work at that age.

My neighbors are 22 year old couple living together. They might work.
 
ITCC_Andrew
I know of one couple, yes, only one, out of like 100, which is still going. That one started at age 14, and is still going at 21.

One lesbian couple, I actually thought wolf get married... They are both heterosexual now. Oh, and one is pregnant and the other is an alcoholic.

149 couples, 4 pregnancies, 1 successful relationship. Many court battles from mom #2...


They don't work at that age.

My neighbors are 22 year old couple living together. They might work.
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One question: How the hell do you remember all this?
 
cnd01
One question: How the hell do you remember all this?
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Autism/Autistic memory.
Furinkazen
Tally Chart and a healthy amount of black ink.
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In my mind.

Edit: except for the one with the court battles, she posts it on Facebook for everyone to read like a responsible mother. :rolleyes:

And the one who was raped by a family member and actually reared the child... I felt so incredibly sorry...
 
Ssssoooooo... yeah. She invited me to that party.

When I was sitting at school yesterday with that guy waiting for our third friend, I may have accidentally told him that I'm actually kinda interested/intrigued by that girl. He messaged his girlfriend so she can hype her up for me a bit more...without my written consent :C

All jokes aside, she seems okay. We had a conference on Skype yesterday for well over 4 hours, all five of us. It was magical :p

So now I'm going to a party I'm no idea where it's even going to take place, and I'm apparently sleeping in the same room with her, and I may not be alone after that party.

LOW VOICE FTW...yeah.

Oh, and we officially know each other now that I added her on Facebook.
 
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One of my best mates was born in '95 (just one year before Johnny1996 was born, I assume) and they have been together for over three years. So, in my opinion, if you want a long term relationship with someone at that age, it can be done 👍
 
I have a relationship with my car that's beginning to breakdown.
Not the car, the relationship.
I'd like a new car.

I'm pretty wary of admiring other cars in my car's presence though; don't like the way it whines sometimes when I do that - the whine is between a fan-belt whine and a power-steering whine. It's not a tranny whine either.

Kind of suspicious on the whole. Have to keep my eyes on the road and stop looking at Fusions and MKZs and Maximas and saying "Nice car!" as I drive by.
 
photonrider
I have a relationship with my car that's beginning to breakdown.
Not the car, the relationship.
I'd like a new car.

I'm pretty wary of admiring other cars in my car's presence though; don't like the way it whines sometimes when I do that - the whine is between a fan-belt whine and a power-steering whine. It's not a tranny whine either.

Kind of suspicious on the whole. Have to keep my eyes on the road and stop looking at Fusions and MKZs and Maximas and saying "Nice car!" as I drive by.
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*Rises from behind a wall* ...Lexus GS?
 
Ishikawa M
*Rises from behind a wall* ...Lexus GS?
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Also a good car.
So many great new cars on the market. The car I drive is the car of choice for most undercover cops - the Olds Intrigue. It's a super car, immense accelaration, long-legged, very intelligently designed all around, and last of the breed (final production year.) But just getting a little tired of it, and missing the Lincoln Continental I sold off not long ago.

However - we should get back to talking about relationships with people, I guess, before this discussion starts resembling the Premium Rambling thread.

So on Topic:

I have to say that my relationship with my last child - turned 14 today, is the most mind-bogglingly, delightful relationship I've ever had with anybody - and I mean anybody. He is very close to me, understands me so well, reads me like a book, respects and loves me immensely (never fails to say "I love you, Dad!", everyday, at the most opportune moments) and seems to be the best reward ever for being alive.
In fact I'm paranoid about how devastated I would be if anything ever happens to him - but I try not to think about it, making sure I look after him to the best of my ability.

I'm sure as he grows older, and maybe gets a girlfriend, some of that love will be channeled elsewhere - but I should be able to live with that by then.
 
photonrider
Also a good car.
So many great new cars on the market. The car I drive is the car of choice for most undercover cops - the Olds Intrigue. It's a super car, immense accelaration, long-legged, very intelligently designed all around, and last of the breed (final production year.) But just getting a little tired of it, and missing the Lincoln Continental I sold off not long ago.

However - we should get back to talking about relationships with people, I guess, before this discussion starts resembling the Premium Rambling thread.

So on Topic:

I have to say that my relationship with my last child - turned 14 today, is the most mind-bogglingly, delightful relationship I've ever had with anybody - and I mean anybody. He is very close to me, understands me so well, reads me like a book, respects and loves me immensely (never fails to say "I love you, Dad!", everyday, at the most opportune moments) and seems to be the best reward ever for being alive.
In fact I'm paranoid about how devastated I would be if anything ever happens to him - but I try not to think about it, making sure I look after him to the best of my ability.

I'm sure as he grows older, and maybe gets a girlfriend, some of that love will be channeled elsewhere - but I should be able to live with that by then.
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Intrigue was a undercover car? Thought it was a Crown Vic.

Aw, that sounds so adorable. Sometimes I wish for a father like that... but I don't have that.
 
TB
So he shouldn't even try, right? Because you say it won't work?
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Opposite. I'm saying the relationship she just began will not last. Everyone should huge it a shot.
 
ITCC_Andrew
Everyone should huge it a shot.
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Wat. I may be American, but I do not understand this saying.

What makes you think it won't last? You can't say that it will or won't work because you can't predict how long anything will last. As far as we know, it can last for years. I am known to be a bit of a pessimist, but at least have a little optimism.
 
Team THRT Drift
My friends are still going at it for six years now. Just because a couple of mismatched people didn't make it doesn't mean everyone won't make it.
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...I'm not denying that. I'm saying that there is a 99% percent likelihood.........

That one percent would be unfortunate for Johnny... But not impossible.
 
Realistically we all meet, get together, and break up with far more people than we end up being with forever (usually that number is 1).

So meet as many people as you can, don't hesitate to initiate something, and don't be too discouraged if it doesn't work out. All the trials make the moment you meet that one person all the more special.
 
Last day of school, last chance to ask her number. Played games with her for a good portion of the day. But I didn't get her number.

An well I got something just as good, an invite to a pool party tomorrow!
 
MY mom was dating my dad at 15....almost 30 years later here we are...

Anyways, the girl I like is supposed to be coming over tomorrow. My mom and her have gotten pretty close lately and my siter is good firends with her.

Hopefully those ties will aid in my quest to be with her.
 
Slash
MY mom was dating my dad at 15....almost 30 years later here we are...

Anyways, the girl I like is supposed to be coming over tomorrow. My mom and her have gotten pretty close lately and my siter is good firends with her.

Hopefully those ties will aid in my quest to be with her.
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hahahaha i love this, sooo bleeding cute ^^ i dont know you but wish you all the best in your quest :D 👍👍
 
She's the one. I just know it.

She's the reason nothin has worked out with others in the past.

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..............aaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnddddddddddd she cancelled. :(


Day ruined.
 
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And that right there is why you don't get your hopes all up, gents.
 
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