The General Relationship Thread

[TB]

And that right there is why you don't get your hopes all up, gents.

 

[Aki Ko]

And that right there is why you don't get your hopes all up, gents.

Because it all comes crashing down when reality gives you a wake-up call.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

How did she find out that you like her, @Slash?

 

[Slash]

How did she find out that you like her, @Slash?

Ever since I told her, many moons ago. Shes known. I haven't made steady advances in a long time. I'm ready to try it again. Its worth it to me.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

Sounds like intentional avoiding.

 

[phillgt2002]

Expect the worst but pray for the best @Slash, maybe she was doing her make up and took too long.

 

[Slash]

Well this time she wasn't coming over for me anyways, she made plans for my mom to do a mockup on her hair for prom.

But yeah, I felt like that was the case for a long time. She is really soft spoken though and typically won't speak to you unless spoken to. That happens to everyone, at least thats what I've been told by multiple sources.

If you catch her in a conversation in person, she usually keeps it up for abit but she's still "one of those".

we'll see what happens.

I'm not holding out for anything, but I would be the happiest man in the world if this FINALLY worked.

I broke down to my mom the other day and told her EVERYTHING. Fortunately, I have her full support behind this.

 

[Crispy]

Well yesterday was the pool party. We all played games, swam, listened to music, ate pizza. It was going great, until the Irresistible Israeli came. Sometimes I wonder if having a girlfriend still means something to some guys.

But you know I can focus on the slight negatives of the day, or I can focus on the vast positives. I still got hugged by an incredibly attractive girl, I still improved my relationship with her and with old friends and new. Best of all I got a second, second chance.

Oh and my friend confessed she liked me yesterday too. I wouldn't care, except that the girl I like is kinda her friend. Heyoo high school.

 

[Team THRT Drift]

MY mom was dating my dad at 15....almost 30 years later here we are...

Anyways, the girl I like is supposed to be coming over tomorrow. My mom and her have gotten pretty close lately and my siter is good firends with her.

Hopefully those ties will aid in my quest to be with her.

My mom and her

My mom and her

My mom and her

*pulls out family album*

"And here he is, third birthday. Here he is at the tub.. isn't he cute? Just like his father..."

Yeah.... don't worry. Now that you have your mom's full support it could work out. Cheer up, mate

 

[Harsk100]

Well, I have a girlfriend and I have an good relationship with her. I didn't give her first kiss yet but when the time comes, I'll do it!

 

[Madertus]

So...she messaged me on Skype yesterday (haha still too early for a full call I believe? ). The result was the usual, casual conversation, you know, 'about nothing'.

Except that now she personally invited me to that party of hers

"(...) because I'm throwing a party you're obviously invited to (...)"

Yeah, obviously

SUCCESSFUL IMPOSSIBRU

 

[V8-Johnboy]

Well, I have a girlfriend and I have an good relationship with her. I didn't give her first kiss yet but when the time comes, I'll do it!

No rush Harsk she must be one hell of a gal.

 

[ProjectWHaT]

Oh man. I'm extremely jealous

 

[phillgt2002]

This thread just went toward cringe.

 

[Madertus]

This thread just went toward cringe.

And to think that EVEN I have been doing rather good recently...

 

[Slash]

*pulls out family album*

"And here he is, third birthday. Here he is at the tub.. isn't he cute? Just like his father..."

Yeah.... don't worry. Now that you have your mom's full support it could work out. Cheer up, mate

 

[buck1]

She's the one. I just know it.

She's the reason nothin has worked out with others in the past.

EDIT:



..............aaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnddddddddddd she cancelled.


Day ruined.

This is sad , but remember the best things come to those who wait 👍 & patience is a virtue, goodluck with her.

 

[Slash]

I'm waiting.


And I will continue to wait.

 

[buck1]

Do you have her number ?? if so you could perhaps text her about something relevant if she responds you know she's interested then 💡 👍

 

[Slash]

I do. I text her every so often. She usually responds and we hold a conversation for a little while.

 

[buck1]

I do. I text her every so often. She usually responds and we hold a conversation for a little while.

ohhh well you have nothing to worry about ...she's yours, go back to being patient

 

[Slash]

I don't know if she's mine quite yet. We don't talk enough if that makes sense. Partially my fault, some of it's hers. My mom said she might squeeze some info out of her "without making it obvious". She said this girl NEVER lies to her.

I'm just sitting back and waiting.

Truth be told, I think at one point she said she didn't consider me because we didn't talk a lot. Something to improve on I suppose.

 

[buck1]

When you feel the time is right tell her how you feel, dont be shy, the outcome will be worth it 👍👍👍

 

[phillgt2002]

And to think that EVEN I have been doing rather good recently...

Dont make life revolve around women. **** just goes naturally for me now since I stopped giving a **** about relationships. Have fun no matter who you're with. Just avoid sausage festing though.

 

[Slash]

When you feel the time is right tell her how you feel, dont be shy, the outcome will be worth it 👍👍👍

Will do. It's just hard NOT to say something when I see her because that's ultimately what I am going for. I don't want to scare her away.

 

[Madertus]

Dont make life revolve around women. **** just goes naturally for me now since I stopped giving a **** about relationships. Have fun no matter who you're with. Just avoid sausage festing though.

Hey, I'm still saying this as someone who is NOT looking for a relationship at all. If what I'm involved in turns out good, then... well, good for me I guess.

I'm still the same antisocial, hateful being I was not long ago I'll do my best to be careful, don't worry 👍

I've been alone for 22 years now and believe me, not many things are going to be able to change that. The other person has to mean a lot to me in order for me to even start trusting them.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

When you feel the time is right tell her how you feel, dont be shy, the outcome will be worth it 👍👍👍

Some people know what women want - these people are other women. Take this woman's advice!

 

[McLaren]

I'm guessing 1996 was the year going Johnny 1996 was born. I know from experience, relationships don't work out long-term at that age.

See what happens, Johnny. 99% chance it works out for you, to at least have the chance to ask her out.

Not to rain on Johnny's parade, but you're showing your own age here.

While the chances of an 18-20 year old's relationship lasting forever has strong odds against it, it is still the point in a person's life where they have more time to dedicate to it & actually create one with someone else. This isn't a high school relationship that can last from 2 weeks to 2 months, it's a time where a relationship can last from months to years once said school is out of the way.

If Johnny finds out this girl he likes does have a boyfriend, he'll hopefully say ok, and put distance between her except when necessary.

They don't work at that age.

My neighbors are 22 year old couple living together. They might work.

And my close friends started dating at 19/20 and still going strong with 2 kids 6 years later.

Don't give this persona to everyone that you're a love guru and what may or may not work.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

Realism - understanding both sides of a discussion.

 

[GTboyz]

Ever since I told her, many moons ago. Shes known. I haven't made steady advances in a long time. I'm ready to try it again. Its worth it to me.

Well i was in similar situation as you. Hope you end up better than my relationship now.

Hope i dont end up like this :

Or this :