The General Relationship Thread

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cnd01
Stop thinking. Stop hoping. Stop everything. Actions speak louder than cries on online forums
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Not really wise to say stop everything. *Giggles* He has to, ya know, breathe and eat and all the usual stuff.
Jokes aside,
ProjectWHaT
After procrastinating for over a month, it's tomorrow or never. I'm going to ask her to the dance. Hopefully I won't chicken out again. *sigh*
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Go and ask her, despite how nervous you will be. Chances are you'll probably will go out with her and even if she'll decline, you possibly can make friends with her (and maybe work your way up).
 
So, this girl from high school is liking like every photo I post of my car. Every. Single. One. Normally, I don't mind, but why every photo?
 
Ishikawa M
That's strange... Maybe she likes the rusty Subaru or you may have a stalker... of the Subaru (hide it).
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Like, okay, it is pretty modern (BMW-esque LEDs, HIDs, and STi front bumper...) But...

:lol:
 
(forgot to post here earlier today)

So I asked her finally today! I'm so proud of myself! :D

But she said declined. She said, and I quote, "...my friends and I are being weird and skipping the semi"
 
ProjectWHaT
(forgot to post here earlier today)

So I asked her finally today! I'm so proud of myself! :D

But she declined. She said, and I quote, "...my friends and I are being weird and skipping the semi"
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Good that you asked her! At least you tried. It could've gotten a lot worst.
 
Keep digging. That's not a "no," that's an invitation to do something more fun than a dance.
 
ITCC_Andrew
Keep digging. That's not a "no," that's an invitation to do something more fun than a dance.
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Im just curious, so when a girl doesnt say no literally, she didnt really reject you ?
 
GTboyz
Im just curious, so when a girl doesnt say no literally, she didnt really reject you ?
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...He has a point, ya know.
 
Its been a bit since I posted here, and while I'd like to not disclose anything new, I'd like to give WHaT a pat on the back. *pats WHaT's back :)
TB
Her name isn't Spektru, is it? :p
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I've been a victim of that, so since I know the joke, I almost fell off my bed laughing so hard. :lol:
 
GTboyz
So depends on the situation ?
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Depends on the context of what she says. A lot of girls will dance around saying, "no", and will attempt to let you down easier with an excuse or phrase that still literally means, "sorry, but no".
 
GTboyz
Im just curious, so when a girl doesnt say no literally, she didnt really reject you ?
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This depends on the situation. I was asked out by a girl I liked, but was actually legitimately busy.

On the other hand, there is insincere "oh, I ummm am ummmm busy, my family is moving away to Scotland soon."
 
GTboyz
So depends on the situation ?
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Girls are complicated (Even I can say this). You have to get to know them... and even then you'd still don't know anything about them. When they say no, sometimes it's unconfirmed/uncertain or is as what it mean- no. Thankfully, I don't have to find out because I just make friends with them.
 
I'm guessing the "let's be friends" is one of the sugar-coated rejections ?

Ishikawa M
Girls are complicated (Even I can say this). You have to get to know them... and even then you'd still don't know anything about them. When they say no, sometimes it's unconfirmed/uncertain or is as what it mean- no. Thankfully, I don't have to find out because I just make friends with them.
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Yeah, you think you know them then BAM !, you dont know them again. Very wierd lol
 
GTboyz
I'm guessing the "let's be friends" is one of the sugar-coated rejections ?
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Sugar-coated? Is that the new word for friendzoned? Whatever, just be glad if she said that she'd be friends with you. At least it'll not be as awkward than trying to go out and it failing so then you'd look at each other differently.
 
GTboyz
I'm guessing the "let's be friends" is one of the sugar-coated rejections ?
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The definitive.

But, if a girl says she's busy, make an educated guess about whether she's lying or telling the truth.

The girl I might end up dating told me she couldn't hang because she was going in to the hospital. A few days later, her Facebook wall exploded with people saying "glad you're out of the hospital."

:irked: honesty is the best policy.
 
Ishikawa M
Girls are complicated (Even I can say this). You have to get to know them... and even then you'd still don't know anything about them. When they say no, sometimes it's unconfirmed/uncertain or is as what it mean- no. Thankfully, I don't have to find out because I just make friends with them.
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Ishikawa M
Sugar-coated? Is that the new word for friendzoned? Whatever, just be glad if she said that she'd be friends with you. At least it'll not be as awkward than trying to go out and it failing so then you'd look at each other differently.
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Umm no im just asking out of curiousity, i didnt have any girl saying lets be friends right now..
 
ITCC_Andrew
The definitive.

But, if a girl says she's busy, make an educated guess about whether she's lying or telling the truth.

The girl I might end up dating told me she couldn't hang because she was going in to the hospital. A few days later, her Facebook wall exploded with people saying "glad you're out of the hospital."

:irked: honesty is the best policy.
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Speaking of, she's on Facebook now. *starts chat* ;)

Yeah. Weekends are excellent. She returns to our side of province, and I get off work.
 
GTboyz
Umm no im just asking out of curiousity, i didnt have any girl saying lets be friends right now..
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This is just my speculated guess because the last time I asked a girl out was in.... 6th grade at best. My signature at the bottom should give out a hint why.
ITCC_Andrew
The definitive.

But, if a girl says she's busy, make an educated guess about whether she's lying or telling the truth.

The girl I might end up dating told me she couldn't hang because she was going in to the hospital. A few days later, her Facebook wall exploded with people saying "glad you're out of the hospital."

:irked: honesty is the best policy.
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ITCC_Andrew
Speaking of, she's on Facebook now. *starts chat* ;)

Yeah. Weekends are excellent. She returns to our side of province, and I get off work.
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Andrew, not to sound mean, but can you give her a bit of space sometimes? I know you're trying to work on getting her, but give her a break from talking. I know I would have liked some time from talking every once in a while (I'm a bit feminine, so I can click with females and get an idea better than some others).
 
ITCC_Andrew
Ummm, not even if it's to see if she is okay?
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What I meant is outside of events that affect her life (hospital visits, birthday, holidays, etc). It's nice to check on her, but she has her own bubble that would like to be left alone sometimes.
 
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