I don't suggest moving her out to San Francisco. What type of degree is she going for? The type of degree you have will determine what type of job you will get, especially in a place as competitive as San Francisco.
If you could, I would try to relocate to San Mateo where the rent can be significantly cheaper.
Yeah, the commute into San Francisco from San Mateo is so annoying to do. That's the main thing my brother complains about. Oakland is more tolerable, most likely. The BART is more accessible, and depending on where you live, there can be less distance traveled.We are both Architects. SF is the place to be right now. I might look into San Mateo, but a colleague of mine lives there and the commute is awful. I would rather pay $300 extra a month and live in Oakland (where I do now) just to not have to drive.
Yeah, the commute into San Francisco from San Mateo is so annoying to do. That's the main thing my brother complains about. Oakland is more tolerable, most likely. The BART is more accessible, and depending on where you live, there can be less distance traveled.
If you're an architect, you're in the right place. In fact, anything that deals with design, you're in the right place in San Francisco. I plan on moving away from the general area of the Bay after college.
That said, I think it wouldn't be too bad for a move. San Francisco has a great job market, and if you get in the right door, you can get a pretty hefty paycheck, especially with interest of architecture.
It's interesting how my buddies go insane about how much I was getting payed at my former job, but they don't realize how much that is adjusted. The minimum wage in San Francisco is, what, $13.50 as of 2016? They just don't understand how little that is in the Bay Area.Yes, I'm making about 20% more than friends of mine with the same experience/education in Chicago and Dallas. Unfortunately, I'm also paying 200% more for rent....
Yesterday she asked for my opinion on The TV show Real Housewives of Beverly Hills (She asked would you like to live with a women like that ? I said "No!." (it just happened to be on TV) I said "the women on this show are terrible and rude." She said "If I had to live with women like that I would 🤬 kill them (
) ." Then she said we should watch this other show and see how 🤬 stupid they are. I'm really happy she doesn't like this show because it makes her a real good women
. Then she asked for my opinion on theses drink bottles she bought I said "They are good and the colour suits you." So she must be slowly asking for my opinions on things. She always wants to know what I am planing for the day (I normally don't plan anything).
What is "this" exactly?if this doesn't work
What is "this" exactly?
her boyfriend is really religious, which surprised me because he's one of the smartest guys in the school.
This really surprised me because she never acted like that when she's texting to me.
I'm not really sure what kind of position I'm in.
"Do you really love me?" "Am i really pretty, beautiful"
Our relationship grows each day. She loves stealing my Boxer Briefs, and my hoodies, and pajamas. Which im completely okay with since its super adorable. We wrestle around a lot and end up hurting each other. Dysfunctional Much. Her parents really like me, and treat me like family.
First off, knowing that you have a Facebook, you should understand that there is often miscommunication, especially when it comes to analyzing someone's relationship with another. Just because she is posting things on a guy's Facebook that has smiley faces doesn't exactly mean much.I had promised to myself that I would ask her out before the end of January, so I was planning on making a move next week. But lately, I've been seeing a lot of worrying stuff on her FB page. Status updates of her "feeling happy" while hanging out with some random dude, smilies posted on pictures of said dude, etc. At the same time, the "signs" I've been seeing from her (the awkwardness, the smiles, etc.) have sort of went away over the past week, as if she has shifted her focus towards something else.
Now it could be that he's just a good friend of hers, and all of this is a coincidence. But if it isn't, then clearly she's more interested in him at this point then me.
Should I just say "🤬 it" and ask her out anyways next week, hoping for a positive response? Or should I take a step back and see what happens?
First off, knowing that you have a Facebook, you should understand that there is often miscommunication, especially when it comes to analyzing someone's relationship with another. Just because she is posting things on a guy's Facebook that has smiley faces doesn't exactly mean much.
Don't become protective of her and who she is because you have interest in her.
Secondly, when it comes to making a move with someone with interest in relationship, don't promise yourself anything. You'll just set yourself up for disappointment if something goes wrong. The person may be bad at picking up that you like them, and is just being a genuinely nice person.
Now, after the Facebook snooping, you have an elephant in the room with your thoughts. Did you ever think that she was being nice to you due to you giving her a ride?
I don't want to crush your feelings, but women are humans. Approach it that way to keep yourself from getting burned.
Take some time with her and find out more about who she is, but don't jump the gun. Some girls will reveal that they have boy friends unknowingly. Lastly, don't worry about the other guys she is speaking to..
Okay. My brother has done this approach. I haven't, but it's a yes or no answer most of the time. It may put her on the spot, especially since she has held back from speaking to you recently.It would be nice to have a definite answer though, might talk one of my buddies at work into just flat out asking her if she has a boyfriend, haha.
(A few days ago she bought a few a few drink bottles and asked for my opinion of them I said "the purple one suites you" A few days later I saw her wearing purple cloths is this a coincidence or a result of my opinion ?)
I think she is mentioning that she will pay you back you you both meet up for dinner.
Also, I don't know what you mean about the last part.. It's very hard to understand, sorry.
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I'm still getting mixed feelings when talking to this girl. She wanted to group up with me for a lab today, which I said yes to doing. Right when the teacher mentioned working together, she immediately asked if I wanted to work with her.
She has some of the prettiest eyes I've seen in a while. Anyways, I'm not sure if I'm taking her advancements the right way. Part of me feels like it's nothing, but the other me feels like she's interested, but I'm not sure on what she is interested in.
One funny thing is that I don't even know her name, even though we have talked to each other a good amount. She knows mine, so it feels strange when I try to address her. Next time, I will mention that I don't know her name.
It's most-likely a Freudian slip, though that's what she feels about you probably. Honestly, love is a word that is given way too much power. I use it a-lot more than some people, so I guess that's just how I feel. If I like something, I tend to say love from time to time, but some people are deceived by that word.Do you reckon she will notice this and hoping I will say it back or is it just a slip of the tongue?
We went to get takeaway for dinner and one of the staff members said "Are you two together ?" She said "Yes". Then she looks at me and kind of screws her face up and then goes back to talking to Me. (I think most women would do this if your not together). The other thing she has been doing is asking me remember things for her.
It's like he's doing it on purpose.FFS man, do something already! She's pretty much begging by now.
It's like he's doing it on purpose.