In the other thread, people don't really agree with each other. I would say that around 50 percent love it and 50 percent absolutely hate it. There doesn't seem to be much in between.
You should make a poll, if you want to find out how people think of it.
Now there is a hotfix released, not to change the FF but some cars didn't respond to the torque settings as they should.
http://www.gran-turismo.com/us/news/00_3616438.html
I hope you don't experience the problem you had before any more.
When I played yesterday, it was sure softer but not as soft as other people seemed to discribe. I mainly drive road cars. I went back from strenght 10 to strength 5 a couple of months ago, since I don't want to overload my G27. Also using 5, you had more feel. After 1.12 I use 6 for torque and 10 for feel, I absolutely love it. It just gives much more information about the cars' limit to me.