Don't you ever wonder what it's like with other women?
I think I'd kill myself if I had to be with only one woman ever.
Why? I've never been a "grass is greener on the other side of the fence" guy. I haven't discovered everything there is to know about
this woman yet. Why would I need to look elsewhere? Why have 'woman ADD'?
We're extremely well matched emotionally and physically. After almost 24 years, we still totally 'do it' for each other (no pun intended). It's interesting every time, and even when it's not 'new and different', it's relaxing and fun. That's not to say it isn't usually 'new and different', either.
I've always thought you need to experiment with others just so you know what's good and what's not.
If you spend all the time with the same one, you probably won't know any different. And because of that, you basically don't try new stuff.
I disagree, respectfully. We change it up frequently to match our mood. We've experimented. We've found no need for props, costumes, scripts, or special furniture. Some people like that, and that's cool, but to us it just gets in the way. There are certain things neither of us has any interest in, and there are certain things we both like a lot. Within that group, there's room for plenty of variation. Sometimes we sneak a spontaneous one like eager high school kids; sometimes it's long, slow, sleepy, and comfortable when we've got the luxury.
The '7 year itch' affects a lot of people, so it must be common. But I've never found anybody as fun and interesting to be with as my wife is, so I really don't see any reason to change just for the sake of change.
) if you're both upfront with each other about what you want. If you've got variety and are both having fun safely, what else do you need?
